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How did you know....

The debate is on in my house whether or not we are ready for baby number 2 or whether or not to even have a number 2.....I'm ready (and have been since my DS was 2) but DH is not.  We've waited this long for a variety of reasons but I do not want to wait much longer.  DH is content with just our lil Emma but I really want another baby. 

How did you and your DH know you were ready for another one.....or decide to only have 1 if thats the case?

Re: How did you know....

  • We already have two kids, but only one is biologically DH's.  I always knew that I wanted to have two with him and a total of three kids.  Daycare cost was our biggest issue.  It was going to cost us $2,400 per month for two.  DH would also be content with just his little boy but I wasn't.  He saw how it was impacting me emotionally to consider having just one.  He put it up to me to find a way to make two kids and daycare work and we could start trying then. 

    We refinanced our house and found someone who will care for the kids for less than $2,400 a month.  Needless to say, he was excited, I was excited and now we're on the road for TTC for his #2!

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    Kaela-Leilani 04.10.99
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