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Ladies I just need to talk...and cry
I have had alot happen in my life in the last 6 months and I think it is all catching up to me.
Oct- got married,
November- got pg
December.- found out my ex husband let our house go into foreclosure and we were getting ready to close on a house...so I lost that dream
Jan- cancelled my 30 day notice where I was living since we could not get a home loan (according to the bank I have to wait 2 years)
Feb- lost the baby and getting evicted because my rental company thinks we are "unstable" since 2x in the last 6 months we gave and cancelled a 30 day notice. Tried calling them and they would not change their mind (I have lived in this house 2 1/2 years and never been late on rent). Now, there are 2 houses in our area available for rent. the only one we even remotely like is in a different school zone. So my 2 kids will have to change schools next year (getting a variance so they can finish out this school year). Oh and the new landlord can't seem to decide if we will be able to move in this weekend or next. We will find out on Wed. and this is stressing the heck out of me. Oh and it is cookie season here and I am a girl scout troop leader and cookie sales are WAY down and I don't know if we will make enough money to last us for events and troop meetings for the next year.
I feel numb head to toe. I am sad about moving, I am not thrilled about this new house and have to sign a 1 year lease.....I just want to take a hot bath and cry but I can't even do that until the 26th (due to the d&c)!!!!!!
Re: Ladies I just need to talk...and cry
Thanks ladies. Up until last week I was just taking everything in stride...well as much as I can. Then I got the eviction notice. I called them crying and asking for a reason why. They said the owners just think I am too high of a risk since I put in a 30 day notice 2x. I called an attorney and they said he has full right to do that. The new house is ok. I just love my neighborhood and am so sad to leave it....I am only moving 2 1/2 miles away but it feels like a long ways (a little more than walking distance lol). I know most of this is temporary but ugh...
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That is a whole lot of really really crappy stuff to happen all at once (except the getting married part of course!). I'm so sorry that you're hitting a rough patch. I hear what you're saying and as difficult as it is to do, just try to see that you can go nowhere but up from here.
On a side note - I didn't realize that you had lost your baby. I'm so sorry to hear that. Long distance hug to you and your fam.
Thank you. We went in for an ultrasound on the 9th to find out the baby had passed 2 weeks earlier. I had a D&C done on Friday the 12th.
You are correct in this. My kids have no clue that all this is bothering me. Nor do I want them to. I pray alot, my kids pray alot. I believe it is very important to pray. It really helps too.
Big, big hugs to you and your family. My mom always told me terrible things come in threes, but it seems like you've been walloped (and you should be done for awhile!!!). I wish there was something I could do to help you, but please know that we are all here for you! You are doing everything you can for your family and that is all that you can do for now.
I wish I lived closer, by the way, because I'm trying to find a GS cookie source and coming up dry!
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I am so, so sorry all these things are happening at once and even more so very sad for the loss of your baby. That alone is more than enough to be going through. Try to hang in there. A quote that I live by when unfortunate things happen is "the only way out is through". While you're going through it all we'll be here to support you and listen whenever you need it. I'm really sorry. T & P's are with you and your family.