November 2008 Weddings
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Vent: Sister's wedding

OMG.  My sister is driving me flucking crazy with her wedding. 

A couple weeks ago she texts me that I need to pick out my bridesmaid dress and be measured by April 19th.  So I request the company, the colors, the bridal store, etc. 
Today she calls me tells me different colors (b/c she wasn't sure about them when I asked 2 weeks ago) and that I need to have the stuff into the bridal shop ASAP.  Dude, seriously, I'm planning to go as close to the deadline as possible b/c I am going to have to drive an hour to the store to try on, get measured, etc. Also, they recommend going at approx. 20 weeks b/c that is the best estimate for your size at 6-8 weeks post baby (I will be ~6 weeks post baby when she gets married).  I'm 14 weeks.  I haven't gained any weight, I'm still wearing regular clothes.  If I get measured now, our seamstress is going to have a b!tch of a time making this dress fit me the week of the wedding.  She gets all huffy with me and THEN, after all this she tells me that our cousin who is going to be a bridesmaid isn't even coming to get measured until April 3rd.  So WTF is the big deal?! 
Someone please put me out of her misery.

End Rant.

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Re: Vent: Sister's wedding

  • Um, hello?  Does she not realize you are preggers and that getting measured now is not going to be a good idea?  Some people just don't get it. 
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  • Your sister, Bridezilla, needs to chillax!
  • Woah there, she needs to relax!  It's not like you're putting it off because you're lazy.  Hello!  You have a completely valid reason for not doing it this.exact.second.  Chill out sis!
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  • Tell her to shove it.  Blame it on the baby. Big Smile
  • I'm sorry lady!  Just tell her that if you get measured now, and have to have it fixed more than $.EnterDollarAmount than its her responsibility.  I was KU in two weddings and both brides were really relaxed about the dress thing b/c of that.  Your sister needs to feel the love.
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  • She sounds like a total bridezilla.   Make her wait.  Dresses don't take 20 weeks to make, so you should totally be able to get measured when you are 20 weeks.

    GL!

     

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