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2 really TMI sex ?
I always feel like I'm going to fart just as we start, I feel like I should squeeze my butt so that I don't. I farted once while pregnant and it was a mood killer, so I'm scared to do it again, especially with no excuse like I'm pregnant!
Is this normal?
and then
Sometimes I'll start to giggle, its not really controllable but DH will caress me sides or something and it tickles and I laugh. DH says that HURTS a LOT! the way he described it, is it feels like I'm pushing him out when I laugh and that hurts.
I feel dumb asking these ? but I'm wondering if this is normal
Re: 2 really TMI sex ?
This sounds weird and hilarious at the same time, but can you make sure you are all gassed out before you start having sex? If I feel gassy and I don't want to fart I either push the fart out before we have sex (not in front of my hubby, mind you!) or take a gas-x or something. Really its not the end of the world if you fart while having sex...also might depend on the position you're in. Totally normal.
As far as the laughing goes...that is just strange.
Remove the penis if it hurts while you're laughing! Don't leave it in there.
The gas thing shouldn't be a huge deal. I fart in my sleep which led me to fat while I'm awake in front of my husband. If you're going to be as intimate as to have sex, I don't see why a fart would be horrible to do in front of your husband. I've also peed in front of my husband and got walked in while pooing. I guess it just doesn't really matter to us...
I fart in my sleep to, I know I shouldn't be embarrassed by it, but it just makes me feel weird. Especially since the last time it happened it was a major sex fail.
We do remove his if I start laughing, but I guess I hurt him first then remove it.
Just say "I think I have to fart" pause action and then continue after you have cut the cheese. Simple, that's what I do!
And tell him what tickles you so that it doesn't happen.
Dude, everybody farts! it's a fact of life.:)
He just happened to get your ticklish spot. In the future, let him avoid that area.
You've had a baby? if you're anything like me you were crapping all over yourself during labor/pushing. If your DH was around to see that, then farting should really be no big deal. DH was holding my leg back during pushing the whole time I was crapping--it don't get any more familiar than that.
so true
I've had DH tell me that if I sneeze or laugh to hard while getting it on it hurts him
I just hold in any potty noises, but if I didn't, I know it def wouldn't be a "mood killer". lol
This is kind of funny.
For the farts, I've heard it is actually more common than you would think, because you are moving around and pushing down in all those, uh, awkward areas. I always feel like I have to pee when we start, even if I just went. There is something about the pushing on my bladdar, but it does get better. I really have read, though, that, well, pushing something in pushes the gas out...
For the laughing, huh... don't know. DH likes it when I laugh, even during. Guess it doesn't hurt him.
Exactly.
I really don't understand the question here...
lol.
it is normal. If you are intimate together, you should be able to just pause and tell him I feel like I have to fart and excuse yourself. With the laughing while he is in you and it hurting him, how hard do you laugh?!! lol..my ex would actually tell me to squeeze while he was in becuase it felt good, but hey everyone's different. Dont feel like an outcast though.