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If you have sex 2+ times a week

What times of day do you usually have sex? 

Just curious.  DH and I average about 1x a week.  We're ok with this (we're just happy to have time for any sex these days!), but I don't think either of us would mind a little more. 

 

DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12

Re: If you have sex 2+ times a week

  • Usually at night....I don't do morning sex well at all....my body is all like not functioning..lol....And dh has to get up at like 5:00 am so he is trying to keep his amount of sleep to a max, so he wants to sleep rather than get some...
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    Usually at night....I don't do morning sex well at all....my body is all like not functioning..lol....And dh has to get up at like 5:00 am so he is trying to keep his amount of sleep to a max, so he wants to sleep rather than get some...

    We used to be like that too ... before kids.  LOL!  now I'm like that at night. 

    DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12
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    imagevballgirl102787:
    Usually at night....I don't do morning sex well at all....my body is all like not functioning..lol....And dh has to get up at like 5:00 am so he is trying to keep his amount of sleep to a max, so he wants to sleep rather than get some...

    We used to be like that too ... before kids.  LOL!  now I'm like that at night. 

    That is funny....I just can't breathe though when I wake up...so unless it is absolutely necessary, we don't have sex in the morning....

  • most of the time it's at night...sometimes in the mornings on the weekends we'll do it, and i LOVE having sex then going back to sleep ;) but 3 to 4 times out of the week it's at night time.
  • imagevballgirl102787:

    That is funny....I just can't breathe though when I wake up...so unless it is absolutely necessary, we don't have sex in the morning....

    Strictly out of curiosity... what absolutely necessitates sex?

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  • Well my husband and i have have sex in the mornings and at night and sometimes again in the middle of the night everyday. we have been together for 5 years and recently got married last december. And still nothings changed when it comes to our sex life. Its very hard to keep our hands and lips off each other! I'm not complaining, im enjoying every second of it. The only time we don't have sex is if we are both tired from work or not feeling well. And thats probably 3 or 4 days out of the month. Hehehee!  i think if we keep this up, we will have lots of children! oh wait a second, im pregnant now! LOL!

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    Well my husband and i have have sex in the mornings and at night and sometimes again in the middle of the night everyday. we have been together for 5 years and recently got married last december. And still nothings changed when it comes to our sex life. Its very hard to keep our hands and lips off each other! I'm not complaining, im enjoying every second of it. The only time we don't have sex is if we are both tired from work or not feeling well. And thats probably 3 or 4 days out of the month. Hehehee!  i think if we keep this up, we will have lots of children! oh wait a second, im pregnant now! LOL!

    So, that's 3x a day, most days and you're in your first tri?  I am very impressed!  I'm pretty much exhausted my entire 1st tri and sex is last on the list.  =(

    DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12
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    imagevballgirl102787:

    That is funny....I just can't breathe though when I wake up...so unless it is absolutely necessary, we don't have sex in the morning....

    Strictly out of curiosity... what absolutely necessitates sex?

    I was wondering that too! I guess if we knew we weren't going to be having sex for a while (like if we were going to stay at my parents' place and then I was going to get my period right after or something), it might necessitate having sex at an inconvenient time in order to keep our sanity. Who knows!

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  • prob 4 times a week and Im exhausted from it...lol....we are TTC and Im tired and sore!! lol My hubby is sooo happy about the increase of sexual activity..me:  im way tired....I think I have 'comforter' burn on my knees!!!!
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    prob 4 times a week and Im exhausted from it...lol....we are TTC and Im tired and sore!! lol My hubby is sooo happy about the increase of sexual activity..me:  im way tired....I think I have 'comforter' burn on my knees!!!!

    hahaha...sorry, but that just made me laugh Smile

    We usually have sex at least 4x a week too.. Most days we do it at night *if it works with our schedules* sometimes in the afternoon, and very, very randomly in the morning. We're talking less than once a month

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  • Usually at night before going to sleep.  Sometimes we'll wake up at like 2am and do the deed.  On the weekends we'll also have sex in the mornings or a nooner.
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    imagegone_awry:
    imagevballgirl102787:

    That is funny....I just can't breathe though when I wake up...so unless it is absolutely necessary, we don't have sex in the morning....

    Strictly out of curiosity... what absolutely necessitates sex?

    I was wondering that too! I guess if we knew we weren't going to be having sex for a while (like if we were going to stay at my parents' place and then I was going to get my period right after or something), it might necessitate having sex at an inconvenient time in order to keep our sanity. Who knows!

    i was wondering that too! then i thought about it.

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  • At night...I love to go to sleep after sex so night works best.
  • We average 2-3 times a week, but it varies from week to week. Usually at bedtime.

    If it seems like it's been a while, we'll do it right when we get home from work in the afternoon. 

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    Usually at night....I don't do morning sex well at all....my body is all like not functioning..lol....And dh has to get up at like 5:00 am so he is trying to keep his amount of sleep to a max, so he wants to sleep rather than get some...

    We used to be like that too ... before kids.  LOL!  now I'm like that at night. 

    That is funny....I just can't breathe though when I wake up...so unless it is absolutely necessary, we don't have sex in the morning....

    You can't breathe when you wake up? You may want to see a physician about this, if you were serious.

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    imagevballgirl102787:
    Usually at night....I don't do morning sex well at all....my body is all like not functioning..lol....And dh has to get up at like 5:00 am so he is trying to keep his amount of sleep to a max, so he wants to sleep rather than get some...

    We used to be like that too ... before kids.  LOL!  now I'm like that at night. 

    That is funny....I just can't breathe though when I wake up...so unless it is absolutely necessary, we don't have sex in the morning....

    You can't breathe when you wake up? You may want to see a physician about this, if you were serious.

     I know, I thought that was weird, too. She really can't breathe? Or she figuratively just needs some space in the morning?

  • usually at nights.... and saturday mornings
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    imagevballgirl102787:
    Usually at night....I don't do morning sex well at all....my body is all like not functioning..lol....And dh has to get up at like 5:00 am so he is trying to keep his amount of sleep to a max, so he wants to sleep rather than get some...

    We used to be like that too ... before kids.  LOL!  now I'm like that at night. 

    That is funny....I just can't breathe though when I wake up...so unless it is absolutely necessary, we don't have sex in the morning....

    You can't breathe when you wake up? You may want to see a physician about this, if you were serious.

     I know, I thought that was weird, too. She really can't breathe? Or she figuratively just needs some space in the morning?

     

    I can't breath either in the morning. I have allergies and sinus problems that no doctor can fix. I think it's cause my allergy meds wear off and I take them in the morning. I hate morning sex anyway though, my body and mind are pretty much useless till around 11am each day! Not a morning person!

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  • imageshouldbworkin:
    imagechewychigozie:

    Well my husband and i have have sex in the mornings and at night and sometimes again in the middle of the night everyday. we have been together for 5 years and recently got married last december. And still nothings changed when it comes to our sex life. Its very hard to keep our hands and lips off each other! I'm not complaining, im enjoying every second of it. The only time we don't have sex is if we are both tired from work or not feeling well. And thats probably 3 or 4 days out of the month. Hehehee!  i think if we keep this up, we will have lots of children! oh wait a second, im pregnant now! LOL!

    So, that's 3x a day, most days and you're in your first tri?  I am very impressed!  I'm pretty much exhausted my entire 1st tri and sex is last on the list.  =(

    Wow, really? I right now i want BBQ and im horny. My husband as his hands today! LOL!

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  • During the weekdays, night. That's when we actually see each other, since our schedules are so conflicted.

    During the weekends, in the morning and then sometimes again at night. Since we rarely wake up at the same time during the week, we take advantage of the weekends. We usually wake up, have sexytime, then cuddle and read the paper in bed.

  • We normally have sex in the afternoon after my husband gets home from work. One or both of us is in class in the evening and we are normally very tired when we get home. 
  • Nighttime. I used to hate having sex when it was light out. But I love sex now right after I wake up :)
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