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dare I say the S-word?
So my husband calls me this morning and tells me that he heard on the radio on his way to work some women's forum show where guys call in and ask questions. One of the questions was something about "what is a squirter?" and the women were like "Oh so glad you asked! this will change your married life!" and "I wish I knew this when I was 24!" etc. etc. So this really has nothing to do with the squirter post that was posted a few days ago as a joke. DH said that it was "equal to a prostate in men" and "above the G spot area". So when he asked me "Are you a squirter?" I laughed out loud thinking of this board, and also told him that I really dont think that happens in real life besides pornos. He just got me wondering just what the crap he was talking about. Thoughts?
Re: dare I say the S-word?
Since you brought this up I'm curious- what exactly IS squirting. Yes, I know what it is visually (as I've seen it in porn) but is it always like THAT (as in, looks like urine shooting out of a needle)?
Sorry for sounding naive but I am trying to distinguish and figure out if it is the same as just getting wet to the point where everything is soaked or if it actually has to shoot out at your partner LOL
Sorry for the TMI folks (if anyone was offended).
It can shoot out, or come out in a stream. Apparently the issue for alot of women is that it feels like you are about to pee. The fluid is supposed to be the same that lubricates the vaginal walls, and should therefore be oderless.
I know people who said that they have had one, and basically what it took was the willingness to accept it if it was urine and not lady skeet lol. I've had experiences with feeling a sudden urge to urinate and then backing off cause I was convinced that was it. I think one day I will just go for it since I here the O is beyond amazing!
It does happen in real life and all women are physically capable of doing it, its just a matter of knowing which muscles to contract, and hitting the right spot. And it comes from the same gland as urine, which is why you feel like you have to pee. It should be completely clear, although sometimes, especially if you havent emptied your bladder recently, a little urine can come out with it. For most women, it comes out as a stream, only because to actually squirt like you see in the porn, you have to know which muscles to contract, and when. It kinda comes with practice, if its something you WANT to do.
For me personally, its a different orgasm, but not necessarily a better one, so its not something I purposely do all the time. Obviously its quite messy, which is why its such a rare thing for me. IMO, the mess isnt worth the orgasm... cuz not only do the sheets et soaked, but the mattress too. I would recommended a plastic mattress cover of some sort if you do this.
It is impossible to urinate during sex. It is a good idea to pee before sex, anyway.
I know that. I meant to put your mind at ease go before hand so you arent worried about it. it is one of the most common worries people have
Says who? Why wouldn't a woman be able to pee during sex?
Men can not urinate during because a valve prevents urine from entering the urethra in preparation for the passage of semen. Women's urethras are completely separate from their sex organs and not affected by arousal. An aroused woman can still use the bathroom comfortably, even during the act.
BFP 11.8.12 * EDD 7.17.13 * MC 12.20.12
Whiskey Tango Foxtrot, over!
OMG. I also feel like a virgin. WTH have I been missing?!
DEEEEEETTTAAAAAIIIIILLLLSSS!!!
Haven't you ever heard of a golden shower?
Anyway, the squirting is real. It happened to me once or twice. I don't know how to make it happen again, but it has happened.
BFP on Jan. 18; EDD Oct. 1