November 2008 Weddings
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Update

SO FIRST LET ME APOLOGIZE FOR THE ALL CAPS, I AM ON MY ITOUCH.  NEXT THE UPDATE:  WW3 DIDN'T HAPPEN, AT LEAST NOT YET AND WE ARE HOPING IT DOESN'T.  MIL AND FIL MET UP OUTSIDE THE HOUSE SOMEWHERE AND TALKED.  APPARENTLY HER PLAN SHE TOLD SIL'S FI WAS TO KICK EVERYONE OUT AND GET A DIVORCE THAT SHE WAS CALLING HER LAWYER ETC.  WELL NONE OF THAT HAPPENED, THERE WASN'T EVEN A "SIT DOWN" WHEN THEY GOT HOME.  SIL, HER FI AND THE BABY WERE OVER HERE AND THEY HUNG OUT UNTIL ABOUT A HALF HOUR AGO.  SIL HAD RAN HOME EARLIER TO GRAB PJS FOR THE WEE ONE AND HOPED NOTHING WAS SAID TO HER, NOTHING WAS IN FACT SHE WAS IGNORED BT HER MOTHER.  WE ARE HOPIN THAT CONTINUES WE'D ALL RATHER JUST BE IGNORED.
NEEDLESS TO SAY I AM SOOOOO HAPPY I DIDN'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH HER CRAZY BULLSHIIT IN A SIT DOWN.  

I CAN'T WAIT TO GET THE FVCK OUTTA HERE.

Re: Update

  • Glad WW3 didn't happen.  Not that things sound great, but it could have definatley been worse.  Hope you guys can get out soon.

    On that same note, any more progress with house hunting?

  • WE ARE IN THE PROCESS OF SCHEDULING A MEETING WITH TWO DIFFERENT BROKERS TO FIND OUT OUR OPTIONS AS FAR AS WHAT'S AVAILABLE FOR MORTGAGES IN MA AND NH (ONE GUY IS IN NH THE OTHER IN MA).  SO FAR ITSIT'S LOOKING LIKE WE WILL PROBABLY MOVE TO NH BECAUSE THERE ARE JUST MORE OPTIONS.  WE SHALL SEE THOUGH.  M HAS BEEN WORKING SEVEN DAYS A WEEK SO ITSIT'S BEEN HARD TO DO ANYTHING BUT THESE GUYSUS ARE WILLING TO MEET WITH US AFTER HOURS OR EVEN WEEKENDS, ANYTIME WE CAN DO IT SO I'M JUST WAITING ON M TO MAKE UP HIS MIND.
  • Glad there was no nukes dropped! Will keep my fingers crossed that you get out of hell house SOON!
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  • GL with your MIL and GL with house hunting!
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  • Glad WW3 was averted.  I hope you can get out sooner rather than later so as to avoid any further drama.
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  • Wow... hope you get a place on your own SUPERFAST!!! Glad WW3 didn't happen, though!
  • Glad WW3 has been avoided so far...and I hope it stays that way.  Vibes that you get the hell out of there asap!!!!
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  • I hope MIL maintains radio silence until you guys split. Honestly, I understand "the change" is difficult. We had some tough moments with my mom (she had it almost all at once because she had a hysterocomy) but at least she KNEW she was being unreasonable and asked for our paitence. She didn't freak out and plot to throw everyone out of the house . . . How self-centered can you get?
  • I hope you get a meeting with the brokers soon!
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  • I really hope you and M find something soon.  No one deserves to live like this.  Your MIL is crazycakes.  At least WWIII was avoided!
  • At least you got a bit of a breather last night . . . but wowzers!  It has to be no bueno living like that . . . hopefully things work out and you can get out of there PRONTO!
  • SIL said she spoke with FIL today, I'm guessing to ask what went on last night, and he told her that MIL talked, but that we all still need to talk because there are "issues that need to be discussed", whatever the fvck that means.

    I seriously can't wait around for stupid shiit like this.  If someone wants to fvcking talk, then open your fvcking mouth is what I say.  I have nothing to say to her or anyone else, I have no issues with anyone else but MIL and she already knows that so what else is left?  I just want to move, that's all I want.

    M called no long after I heard this from SIL, and he feels as I do (he can't stand waiting on people) so I'm sure either tonight when he gets home, or sometime soon, unless the "talk" happens before then, he'll go over and tell her to open up or shut up.

    My nerves are pretty much shot at this point.

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