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So, most of our weddings were pretty recently
and I do recall the usual etiquette that I learned along the way.
We had gotten an invitation in the mail about a week or so ago and the rsvp date isn't for another 3 weeks (if not more). We haven't sent it back yet, just because its not a priority and we still have tons of time.
The bride-to-be just TEXTED my husband asking if we are coming or not. We weren't planning on going anyhow and that just firmed it up.
What a train wreck!
Re: So, most of our weddings were pretty recently
BFP 8.9.12 EDD 4.15.12 M/C 8.19.12
BFP 10.11.12 EDD 6.24.12 M/C 10.19.12
Its a nice venue, but there is no way it will be a good time. Her entire family is a train wreck!
My 2 favorite weddings of all time were total train wreck families- SUCH good stories. Do you think I could go in your place just to see what this is like?
I bet she has an A and a B list, and wants to know if she can give your spot to a B lister.
!! You're probably right! I didn't even think of that. I don't really like the idea of A and B lists (although I see why some would do it). But if you're going to do that, wouldn't you bump up the initial RSVP date so it didn't tip anyone off? Or would that cost too much money to print two sets of RSVP cards? I would do everything in my power to ensure that people didn't know there was an A and B list, let alone which one they were on!
To the OP: looks like you were on the A list though!
BFP 8.9.12 EDD 4.15.12 M/C 8.19.12
BFP 10.11.12 EDD 6.24.12 M/C 10.19.12
Robin - sure!!! LOL
I didn't even think of the A and B lists! I handed her her assz on facebook about it.
She must not have given herself enough time, but that isn't our fault. I sent out our "no" reply yesterday. Geesh.
I called people AFTER the due date had passed, but never before.