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Fotophreak4cFotophreak4c
in October 2009 Weddings

The question below about bachelorette parties got me thinking....

My best friend is getting married in December and I am the MOH. Am I supposed to host the bachelorette party? I didn't have one because I didn't want one, it's just not my thing. I also don't drink and I hate to party LOL (I am such an old lady, i'd rather sit home and read). My best friend, on the other hand, loves to party and drink and all her friends do too! I am sure she's going to want a crazy bachelorette party and I am afraid that I can't deliver. It's just not something I am used to doing.

 What should I do?!?! 

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  • mandyandmike2009mandyandmike2009
    Usually the MOH throws the bachelorette party. However my sister was my MOH and she lives in Florida so she didnt plan it. Plus she doesnt drink much and has 2 little ones. My other bridesmaids just got together and planned one for me. If that is not something you like to do I would tell your friend that you dont mind planning it, but it might not be what you are wanting since I dont drink or party.
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  • kelliejo83kelliejo83

    I didn't have one either - I'm an old stick in the mud too! :)

    Get together with the other BMs... maybe you and a couple of them can throw the shower and the other BMs can throw the bachelorette party.

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  • amyngregamyngreg
    Ditto kelliejo, it's usually the MOH but it doesn't have to be the MOH all by herself. Get with the other girls and ask for some suggestions on places to go and what would be fun for her, I'm sure they would be happy to help out, or at least give you some good ideas!
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  • Fotophreak4cFotophreak4c
    Good idea, I think I will do that and ask the other girls to help out, or have them plan the party and I do the bridal shower. Plus, it will prob be in Tampa where she lives and her friends are more familiar with that area. I live about 2 hrs from there.
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  • miss.kaylamiss.kayla
    I agree talk with the other BM's. but, if the bride really wants you there and you cant get out it you could always be the DD (designated driver)
    just an idea:)
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