August 2006 Weddings
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NER: Public Display of Affection

How much do you engage in public display of affection?

If you have a houseguest and your s/o leaves, do you give a quick peck goodbye or do you have multiple lingering kisses mixed with whispering and giggles. 

I went to visit a friend this weekend who for all intensive purposes lives with her boyfriend.  The level of affection shown was almost unbearable.  But I don't know if it is them, or me just being an old married woman who can't possibly understand the need to have a five minute farewell with my husband when he walks out the door, especially if other people are in the room. 

Re: NER: Public Display of Affection

  • we really aren't pda people at all. If Dh left when we had people over, he'd probably peck me on the cheek....or maybe wave from the door. But thats what we do when no one is around, too. Haha. We aren't big "kiss everytime you have to be apart for 10 minutes" type of people.
  • Was your H with you? If it was that unbearable, I would have jumped on the bed screaming and groaning to get back at them.
    "HOW many US citizens and ranchers have been decapitated in Arizona by roving bands of paperless aliens, and how will a requirement that I have papers on me make that not happen?"courtesy of SueSue
  • lol, unfortunately it was just me Meredith. 

  • Wow, that's totally extreme!!

    When we're around people, we do a quick peck on the lips.  We're not big PDA people, but we don't shy away from slight affectionate touches, arms around each other, quick little kisses.  No make out!  No extended amounts of time! 

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  • That would've made me uncomfortable, too... and we're kind of PDA people. We don't like make out in public or anything like that, but we'd do a hug and peck on the lips around people if one of us is leaving (usually if we're leaving for work or for a long time - not like if one of us is leaving to go pick up a pizza).
  • I'm the wrong person to ask!  DH and I are stereotypical midwesterners when it comes to affection, even with each other.  I think the only time we hug in public is at the airport when greeting each other...not that that ever happens either.

    I'd probably wave from wherever I am and say 'see ya later!' Smile

  • I'm not a big PDA person either.  A quick peck on the lips or the cheek is normal in our house.  Heck, I felt weird when some friends started making out on the dance floor at my own wedding!
  • I'm not big on PDA but H is so we compromise somewhere in the middle. I've become a lot more comfortable showing affection in public than I used to be, and actually it might be a bit much for some of you. In fact, a few times we've accidentally called one another our pet names in front of people. Mortifying!

    There is definitely such a thing as too much, though. For example, my brother and his girlfriend (who I hate) giggle and sit on each other's laps and don't talk to anyone else, and at more than one party they've been caught making out in the bathroom (and my bro is 26). Gag.

  • We're not big PDA people... just a quick peck or hug in public. No makeout sessions.

    By the way, when you wrote "for all intensive purposes," I think you meant "for all intents and purposes." Not trying to be snarky, but I see this mistake a lot, so I thought you might want to know.

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  • I would have said "Love you!" and done a quick peck on the lips. But we usually dont make out every morning before work anyway lol

    As far as PDA in general, we hold hands, do pecks on the lips or put our arms around each other, but no making out/fondling each other in public. Thats weird.

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  • If you are alone, you can gross them out even more. I'm just saying.
    "HOW many US citizens and ranchers have been decapitated in Arizona by roving bands of paperless aliens, and how will a requirement that I have papers on me make that not happen?"courtesy of SueSue
  • imagemarriednow06:

    How much do you engage in public display of affection?

    If you have a houseguest and your s/o leaves, do you give a quick peck goodbye or do you have multiple lingering kisses mixed with whispering and giggles. 

    I went to visit a friend this weekend who for all intensive purposes lives with her boyfriend.  The level of affection shown was almost unbearable.  But I don't know if it is them, or me just being an old married woman who can't possibly understand the need to have a five minute farewell with my husband when he walks out the door, especially if other people are in the room. 

    Hm. We are an affectionate couple, no doubt. We hug a lot and hold hands and touch each other and sit close on the sofa and stuff. But a 5 min. tongue wrestling kiss while others are watching? No maam.  

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