Fantasies

fit654 · March 2010

I often fantasize about my dh and I pretending to be strangers and him picking me up at a bar... then going back to a hotel and having sex... While we have tried a lot of things I don't know how to bring this up.. Also it seems so cliched, I'm sure it started because I heard about it at some point in a movie or book but it is really something I want to do.
Anybody else have a similar fantasy? How should I bring it up?

Awtrey3810 · March 2010

This was on "Modern Family" a few weeks ago... lol - I have no idea how you would approach that. My FI would look at me like I had two heads.

megd06 · March 2010

Awtrey3810:
This was on "Modern Family" a few weeks ago... lol - I have no idea how you would approach that. My FI would look at me like I had two heads.

This is the first thing I thought of when I read this

Lily2005 · March 2010

Not sure... Maybe reserve a hotel room (earlier in the day) and bring a couple bags of his/her clothes stuff without him knowing. Maybe tell your FI to get dressed up and take him out to nice restaurant.. sit at the bar and just improvise and see if he goes along with it? The key is that you need to drive and take him to the hotel. If he doesn't get it, at least you could surprise him with the hotel and hopefully you would have some fun in the process...

raeyn · March 2010

I'd recommend being much more direct than that, otherwise you might be disappointed if he doesn't clue in.

I think it sounds like fun so I just read the thread to DH, told him I want to try it, and he's currently looking up hotel rates. Quick and to the point. It's not really a complicated or incredibly kinky fantasy, so it's not likely that you'll freak your husband out. Just hint that it could lead to lot of awesome sex, and he'll probably be on board!

maggiemay07 · March 2010

Just be honest. this fantasy is not too kinky. Plus it's just the two of you.

toadstool · March 2010

raeyn:

I'd recommend being much more direct than that, otherwise you might be disappointed if he doesn't clue in.

I think it sounds like fun so I just read the thread to DH, told him I want to try it, and he's currently looking up hotel rates. Quick and to the point. It's not really a complicated or incredibly kinky fantasy, so it's not likely that you'll freak your husband out. Just hint that it could lead to lot of awesome sex, and he'll probably be on board!

This.

beepers9775 · March 2010

We play all the time. It's really fun. We had a group of friends go out separately.... Guys and Girls. We Met up at the bar and acted like we didn't know each other. We always play with different characters. Its fun and keeps it spicy.

Amber68W · March 2010

That was also in Four Christmases. I thought about it, I think it would be fun.

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