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Let's talk about sex...

I have a few questions about sex...I need to be in control about this I know. I just don't know how to make it more interesting. I need to be interested with making love with my hubby. Maybe because I am boring, idk. Any suggestions, ladies???

Re: Let's talk about sex...

  • raeynraeyn member
    What are your questions? Are you asking for suggestions about how to spice up your sex life? Please be specific and provide details about your situation if you are genuinely interested in receiving input from this community.
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  • Oops! Sorry about that. Yes, how do I spice up our sex life? I work evenings and he works morning shifts. Its kinda hard to do anything. On weekends, it's busy doing errands.
  • raeynraeyn member

    It sounds like you are feeling disconnected because you don't spend enough time together, more than just because you aren't having a lot of sex. My husband and I went through a year renovating our house when we never had time for each other, and it definitely took a toll on our sex life. Talk to your DH and set aside a couple hours on the weekends to be together, no matter how many errands you have. Have a picnic, go out for dessert, or even just go for a walk and talk to each other.

    Once you start reconnecting, I suspect that you will both feel more in the mood for being intimate. That's when spicing it up can be fun. Try wearing some sexy lingerie, dripping chocolate sauce on each other, using a blindfold... just pick somewhere to start and keep experimenting until you get an idea of what you both enjoy! 

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