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Is it bad that I told SD....
that if she believes her mother is watching over her from heaven, then she must also believe that she's watching her steal my *** and lie and destroy other people's property....
I thought that would make a difference... until I went in her room and saw the picture face down. I guess she wanted to steal something and didn't want her mother to "see".... Guess it's time to go thru the drawers again.
Re: Is it bad that I told SD....
Lisa,
I'm so sorry you and Erik have to deal with this. Do you have any residential treatment facilities near you? She may need a change of scene in order for her to cool off and learn that her behaviors are completely unacceptable and to learn some better coping skills to deal with her emotions. The other kids in the house and you two don't need to deal with her crap 24/7.
I'm sorry, but I find it amusing. Not the stealing, but what you said. It obviously affected her in some way.
My parents had a rough time with my sister growing up. I don't think she was as troubled as your girl, but about her Junior or Senior year of HS things started to turn around. Now you would never know that my sister had any issues. I really hope things turn around for you guys soon!
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honestly, I have no idea if saying that was ok or not.
I do hope something works to turn her around soon. My brothers were quite difficult when they were younger (one brother got arrested twice at 14 and was expelled - there were also times that I was scared of him b/c of his anger issues) - and I think a lot of it was due to my mom having severe depression/anxiety issues for many years so we grew up in a sometimes stressful house. I can't imagine the affect of the death of a parent. Now I am definitely not scared of my brothers, and they are overall good guys.