Sex & Romance
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

either/or...

It seems that we are in a routine that I give bj's if it is that time of the month, and then sex when it isn't.  When I get oral, it always leads to sex, but his is either/or.  Do bj's usually lead to sex for your dh?  And how?  I assume if they *** with a bj, it is going to be awhile before they are geared up again for sex.  I want him to get both...but don't know how to do this, I guess. 

Any help is appreciated!   

Re: either/or...

  • bj's USUALLY end in sex for us.  I do it for a while, get him uber excited but he doesn't let it get to the point where he actually cums.  If you want it to lead to sex then don't let him finish when you're just at the bj stage.  When he's just really excited and hard then climb untop of him, or just tell him "I want you inside now" easy-peasy.
  • raeynraeyn member

    imageLil'BlackDress:
    bj's USUALLY end in sex for us.  I do it for a while, get him uber excited but he doesn't let it get to the point where he actually cums.  If you want it to lead to sex then don't let him finish when you're just at the bj stage.  When he's just really excited and hard then climb untop of him, or just tell him "I want you inside now" easy-peasy.

    This! 

    image
    imageimage
    BFP on Jan. 18; EDD Oct. 1
    EDD Oct. 1image
  • Just use BJs as foreplay! Not the whole thing (unless its that time of month)--wouldn't dh rather be inside you anyways?
  • Oh, yes, definitely he would rather be inside.  I just didn't want to "reserve" bj's for that one time of the month because I know he enjoys those too.  I would like to incorporate them more throughout the month!  Your ideas are perfect and so easy!!! 
  • i stop before he can go when giving him a Bj about 85% of the time so we can then have sex since I get excited during the process.  the 15% i dont is when AF is here or I just dont feel up to sex.
  • imageLil'BlackDress:
    bj's USUALLY end in sex for us.  I do it for a while, get him uber excited but he doesn't let it get to the point where he actually cums.  If you want it to lead to sex then don't let him finish when you're just at the bj stage.  When he's just really excited and hard then climb untop of him, or just tell him "I want you inside now" easy-peasy.

    This.

  • imageeyelovemascara:
    Just use BJs as foreplay! Not the whole thing (unless its that time of month)--wouldn't dh rather be inside you anyways?

    Dido!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • It depends on the person. Some may use BJ's as a form of foreplay, or some may consider it to be the full throttle...LOL
  • BJs are foreplay for us, too, but we also have intercourse during my period.

    imageimage
    Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
    "Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
  • Well. . . My DH does not *** from a bj. I like to give them. He likes to get them but for him. . . it is totally fourplay. A way to get him hard and me to get into the mood. (different strokes for different folks right?)

    Get it in as some fourplay. Try using some food to get him really going. Ice, ice cream, honey, syrup, whipped cream, some flavoured lube. (No, I have not tried all of these. . . yet *wink*) Tease around the head of the _______. Drive him batty until he wrestles you down and have yourself a good old time! Happy loving!!Big Smile

Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards