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What do you think?

So, I'm looking for a nanny position for this summer.  I responded to one ad for a family with 4 kids.  They have two 7 year olds, one of which has ADHD and two 2 year olds.  They are paying $12/hour.  Sometimes the mom with be there, sometimes not.  Sometimes I would have all 4 kids, sometimes just the 2 little ones.  At my last nanny job (although I was overpaid for this area, I had one kid and made almost 2 dollars and hour more than that).  I think $12 is not worth it for 4 kids...two of which are toddlers and one that has ADHD.  For just the two little ones I'd be almost ok with that. What do you think? Any ways I could nicely address that in an email?
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Re: What do you think?

  •  I think that only 3 dollars per child doesn't seem like much, especially since you have experience and 2 could possibly be in diapers still.  I guess it depends on the amount of time mom would be around and the amount of time it would be you and the 4 children on your own.  That wasn't all that helpful sorry. :) Good luck.
  • I'm honestly not familiar at all with the going nanny rates, but it does seem a bit on the low side.  Maybe you should post over on the NC baby board since they probably have more experience with what a fair rate would be.
  • I would meet her and her kids and discuss how often you'd be solely responsible for the kids.

    I would probably explain to her that you need to make xx amount per week/month in order to 'pay the bills' and see if she will compromise.  

    Before we put C in daycare, we had a nanny and she wanted to be paid more than we offered, and I was not offended when she asked for more $$, but she was very tactful and explained that she needed x amount to run her household.  We ended up paying her a daily amount instead of an hourly--as long as we stayed within certain time parameters.  Anything over and she earned "paid time off" which she used if she went out of town or we did not drop C off due to a holiday, etc....

  • Definitely not enough money!  I agree w/ pp about mentioning how often it's just you one on one with the kids and go from there with the pay.
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  • I do not really know the going rate for a nanny, but I think you would need to pay me more than $12 an hour for all that.
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