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How often do you have sex?
I've always been curious how often people have sex! My husband was my first and only sexual partner so I can really base it off of any other relationships, and was just wondering what everyone else was like

We currently have sex at least 5-8 times a week. Two years and the sparks have just gone down a tad, used to be 7-10 times a week, but when he started going to school, it cut into random sex time! I can't complain though

[Poll]
Re: How often do you have sex?
Sex 5-8 times a week and the sparks have gone down?
Wow.
edited. I realized this was weekly, not daily.
Man. I would be exhausted and sore for all that sex.
If you want more spark...try not having sex so much. Sort of a spin on absence makes the heart grow fonder.
My hubby would have sex 10 times a day if he was allowed to have it .. but he's lucky to get it once a day the way I am ... we've been married almost a year, but living together for over a year.
We do that every once in awhile, its always amazing
Glad to see after taking the poll I wasn't the only one in the 0-1 times a week!
I'm trying to work on this but I must say I envy you!
I'm curious how people feel about how often they are/n't having sex.
We usually have sex about 7 times a week, though that doesn't always mean every day. What holds us back when it's less, though, is always either illness or homework. My husband would like to be having sex 1-2 times a day, though I am not usually satisfied until we've done it twice. I could sometimes go for a third round. Clearly, though, what we don't usually make it to our "ideal" (probably 7-10 times a week for him, 14 times a week for me).
I'm curious to know if those who are having sex less often wish they were having it more (but have work, school, kids, etc.) or if they have sex that often because they're satisfied with that. I'm also curious to know of those who have it more if both of you need it that much or if one person is catering to the other--which is a good thing in my book as long as nobody feels pressured.