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Poll: Sex during AF

raeynraeyn member
in Sex & Romance
Just curious...[Poll]
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  • alexisanna44alexisanna44 member
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    I do occasionally, but I usually leave the decision up to my husband's mood.  If it happens, 99.9% of the time we do it in the shower just to avoid cleanup.  He enjoys it, I am usually less sensitive than normal, but still have a good time.

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  • sarahtuckersarahtucker
    We'll usually only do oral. I give to him and if my flow isn't too heavy and wear a tampon then he'll do me (sorry probably TMI!). We've never had intercourse while on my period, it kinda weirds me out.
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  • kmlluvnmhkmlluvnmh

    imagesarahtucker:
    We'll usually only do oral. I give to him and if my flow isn't too heavy and wear a tampon then he'll do me (sorry probably TMI!). We've never had intercourse while on my period, it kinda weirds me out.

    I am side-eyeing this.  You let him put his face down there but you won't let him put is d!ck in there????   

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  • ashleym909ashleym909
    i put other. it doesn't freak us out, it's kind of gross to us getting blood everywhere even if there's a towel down. DH wont doit and i dont blame him. i give him oral, or we doit in the bootay!
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  • hiswifey23hiswifey23
    DH is not going for it and neither am I no matter how horny I am. I look at them 5days as my personal time.
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  • pastrypuff9000pastrypuff9000
    Fi and I are fine with it.  We do intercourse and oral (yes for me, not just him).  It gets messy and we don't care.  I side-eye the "eeeeew, gross" folks and the "bj/butt sex week" people. 
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  • MycrimsonheartMycrimsonheart
    I chose other. We only do it in the shower.
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  • triciamarietriciamarie
    It all depends on the day, usually not during the first few days. Have a very light period so it doesn't bother us to much.  But i would expect any o
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  • riderpunkriderpunk
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    Not something we are into.   We can hold off a week.
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  • triciamarietriciamarie

    imagetriciamarie:
    It all depends on the day, usually not during the first few days. Have a very light period so it doesn't bother us to much.  But i would expect any o

     

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    would not expect him to give me oral sex.

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  • femmegemfemmegem
    My DH would have sex any time. On my really heavy days, I just worry that we'll get blood on the sheets, so that's a bit distracting. But as long as I'm not bleeding too heavily it's all good.
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  • OMG Guinea Pigs!!OMG Guinea Pigs!!

    imagepastrypuff9000:
    Fi and I are fine with it.  We do intercourse and oral (yes for me, not just him).  It gets messy and we don't care.  I side-eye the "eeeeew, gross" folks and the "bj/butt sex week" people. 

    Ditto.

    And oral is even less "gross" with a Diva cup or something other than a tampon anyway, for those whom the tampon is not enough.

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  • EngineerAaronEngineerAaron

    imageashleym909:
    DH wont doit and i dont blame him.

    Why not?

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  • pastrypuff9000pastrypuff9000

    imageashleym909:
    i put other. it doesn't freak us out, it's kind of gross to us getting blood everywhere even if there's a towel down. DH wont doit and i dont blame him. i give him oral, or we doit in the bootay!

    So am I to understand that your H won't "doit" because there may be blood, so an acceptable substitution for him is to put it up your butt, where there may be crap?  Hmmmmm.

    Edited to fix typo.

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  • mom2onemom2one member
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    I can't believe some guys would choose POOP over blood. Blech.
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  • OMG Guinea Pigs!!OMG Guinea Pigs!!

    imagemom2one:
    I can't believe some guys would choose POOP over blood. Blech.

    LOL!

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  • sdserra22sdserra22
    we def do, but again it all depends on the day as long as my flow is not too heavy...
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  • jonesdouglasjonesdouglas

    Nope...My H refuses!

    Which is fine... One week out of the month isn't a big deal. 

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  • nchambers1123nchambers1123
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  • justlldjustlld
    It bugs me more than my husband.  I think my pheromones must be weird because it seems like we have more sex when I have my period. 
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  • procella_lamiaprocella_lamia
    imageOMG Guinea Pigs!!:

    imagemom2one:
    I can't believe some guys would choose POOP over blood. Blech.

    LOL!

     

    This.  We use the shower or an old towel.  Why wait a whole week?

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  • Lil'BlackDressLil'BlackDress member
    It's so pretty light so neither of us usually cares, I just won't let him give oral (just like to be completely clean when his face is in my vagina).  And if it is heavier then we'll just use a condom to slim down on the mess. I love it though I'm more sensitive during my period.
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  • MrsSmiley09MrsSmiley09
    First day my cramps are way too bad!  But after that we do.  Just put down a towel or in the shower.
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  • TheSingerTheSinger

    imagejustlld:
    It bugs me more than my husband.  I think my pheromones must be weird because it seems like we have more sex when I have my period. 

     

    Same here.  When it doesn't hurt, I'm game.

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  • jonesdouglasjonesdouglas
    We wait ... We are BOTH grossed out by it, and would rather wait until its over.
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  • goomansgirlgoomansgirl

    imageashleym909:
    i put other. it doesn't freak us out, it's kind of gross to us getting blood everywhere even if there's a towel down. DH wont doit and i dont blame him. i give him oral, or we doit in the bootay!

    Yes exactly

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  • njbrowneyedgrl74njbrowneyedgrl74

    It just depends how heavy it is and how I feel since I get really bad pains.  We definitely do at the very end for sure though.

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  • jpeazybreezyjpeazybreezy
    Complete disinterest accompanies aunt flow so it's a no go.
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  • LilyAnna06LilyAnna06
    yes :) only during low-flow days though. My period lasts 7-8 days :( so by day 5 it's like "why not?"
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  • holubobholubob

    imagehiswifey23:
    DH is not going for it and neither am I no matter how horny I am. I look at them 5days as my personal time.

    Agreed.

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