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DH's bday...any suggestions?

DH's birthday is in a few weeks and I'm trying to plan a romantic, special night for us. I'm thinking lingerie, candles, music, the works. 

 I need suggestions on good "mood music" Also, DH likes bj's and I'm not a fan, so I'm trying to find some good flavored lubes to make it more enjoyable for me. 

 If you all have any other fun, romantic, exciting suggestions please let me know! Or any stories of things you've done for your SO's to make birthday's special. THANKS so much everyone!

Re: DH's bday...any suggestions?

  • I swear by this, but...

    pop rocks. 

    Yes, the candy. I use them whilst I give DH a BJ and it drives him nuts! And it taste yummy! 

    I like to start things in the shower and we wash each other. Then I bust out the pop rocks and "blow" his mind. 

  • roll play!

    honestly dressing up as a slutty nurse, school girl or dominatrix or whatever does it for him is a simple and sexy way to make his eyes pop out of his head, he won't know what to do!  and it'll make you feel incredibly sexy too!

    as for the bj, I'm not a fan of flavoured lube, and I've tried the pop rock thing and it just made me laugh(not exactly sexy), you could pour on some champagne to lick off (has the fizzy effect and it tastes good...just shower before intercourse). or you can trail an ice cube around his man-bits, the cold and extra liquid will help get you through any bad tastes.

  • Honestly, guys could give a crap less about candles and mood music.  Get some pop rocks or suck on a pepermint and give him a BJ.  Make him a yummy dinner.  Give him a sensual massage and then go for the BJ. 
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  • My DH's birthday was today, but since we didn't exactly get to see each other today, when he came home from work he came home to me waiting for him in lingerie in the bedroom.

    Also, on the BJ thing... I didn't use to be too big of a fan...but I know how much he enjoys it and that's enough to get me through... now I don't mind them and we mess around so they're even better... i.e. play with his balls, hum..

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  •   There is "romatic" for men and "romantic" for women. TWO different concepts.

     Women Romance = romantic, special night for us. I'm thinking lingerie, candles, music, the works"mood music"

    Men Romance = Show up naked. Want to make it extra special, bring beer.

       Do you do any sort of grooming around your lady parts?

       On DH's birthday. Send DH a cell phone image of yourself "more groomed"  than usual with a message of "more to follow", your assistanc eplease" etc.

  • imagelifeguard:
       On DH's birthday. Send DH a cell phone image of yourself "more groomed"  than usual with a message of "more to follow", your assistanc eplease" etc.

    I think this would be a great idea. 

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