How often do you have an "O" from vaginal intercourse?

Athlov · March 2010

I'm curious if there are others like me, who live through this frustration of never being able to have an orgasm from vaginal intercourse.

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Athlov · March 2010

Well, it's nice to know I'm not alone. I just wish it was easier. Sad I had a hard time to begin with, but my husband has always gone to great lengths to make me happy too. Add meds to that and even with other methods I'm having difficultly achieving my goal.

What should I do? I'm miserable without the meds, but my husband is miserable without the sex. Wilted Flower

pastrypuff9000 · March 2010

I voted for almost always, but it took me 10 years of being sexually active to learn to have them. I do believe you can train your body to recognize a different kind of stimulation as being extremely pleasurable. Don't give up!

melnjon · March 2010

For myself it all depends on the arousal level for me (a lot of foreplay) and position. I feel bad for hubby because sometimes he thinks it is him. It can feel great but I still won't "O"

denimdarling88 · March 2010

I've never O'd from vaginal intercourse. It's all about the foreplay and c stimulation. I was also DH's first partner, though; he's still a relative newb and/but more than willing to keep trying!

jesshawkins · March 2010

Athlov:
Well, it's nice to know I'm not alone. I just wish it was easier. I had a hard time to begin with, but my husband has always gone to great lengths to make me happy too. Add meds to that and even with other methods I'm having difficultly achieving my goal.
What should I do? I'm miserable without the meds, but my husband is miserable without the sex.

I have this exact problem. At this point I just accept my meds leave me with no sex drive. I don't especially enjoy sex, essentially it is just exhausting and I just wait for him to finish so I can stop. My current attitude towards sex is "Oh, is that what we're doing, okay"

raeyn · March 2010

I never orgasm from intercourse alone, but DH and I use a small vibe on my clit during sex so that I can.

pastrypuff9000 · March 2010

raeyn:
I never orgasm from intercourse alone, but DH and I use a small vibe on my clit during sex so that I can.

I second this as an excellent suggestion.

diddygrl · March 2010

I feel like a FREAK. I have the big O every time and sometimes more than one. I was reading the posts and my jaws just dropped. I am speechless I feel bad for all my fellow nesties.

rels09 · March 2010

Frequency also makes a difference - I voted for "often," but when we were more consistent, it would have been "almost always."

LoveBug10-09 · March 2010

I never have. It will always feel good, but I never even feel like i get close. However, I know a lot of people say it takes quite awhile to be able to do so. I've only been having sex for less than a year...so...we'll see! I'm hoping for the best in the future! I would also suggest a vibrator during sex! That works for me and makes the O soooooooooooooooo much better!

MarisaDolce · March 2010

pastrypuff9000:
I voted for almost always, but it took me 10 years of being sexually active to learn to have them. I do believe you can train your body to recognize a different kind of stimulation as being extremely pleasurable. Don't give up!

This.

justlld · March 2010

Diddygrl, I'm a freak too...I just count my lucky stars.

Hurricane38 · March 2010

Never have... =( For me it's all about the c...

hiswifey23 · March 2010

I always have an o from vaginal intercourse.

diddygrl · March 2010

justlld:
Diddygrl, I'm a freak too...I just count my lucky stars.

After reading this I am going to count my stars twice!!

njbrowneyedgrl74 · March 2010

raeyn:
I never orgasm from intercourse alone, but DH and I use a small vibe on my clit during sex so that I can.

This exactly.

tmm140 · March 2010

Thanks to sex toys its always.

BBgurl · March 2010

Always. Multiple. Without fail. Ever since I became sexually active. I consider myself very lucky but know I am in the minority (at least based on conversations I've had with my gfs).

DysonWife · March 2010

diddygrl:
I feel like a FREAK. I have the big O every time and sometimes more than one. I was reading the posts and my jaws just dropped. I am speechless I feel bad for all my fellow nesties.

Unless I'm exhausted I always do too, and always have from my first partner to my DH. Maybe I have good angles or something?

diddygrl · March 2010

DysonWife:
diddygrl:
I feel like a FREAK. I have the big O every time and sometimes more than one. I was reading the posts and my jaws just dropped. I am speechless I feel bad for all my fellow nesties.

Unless I'm exhausted I always do too, and always have from my first partner to my DH. Maybe I have good angles or something?

diddygrl · March 2010

DysonWife:
diddygrl:
I feel like a FREAK. I have the big O every time and sometimes more than one. I was reading the posts and my jaws just dropped. I am speechless I feel bad for all my fellow nesties.

Unless I'm exhausted I always do too, and always have from my first partner to my DH. Maybe I have good angles or something?