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Initiating sex

Do you initate more or your DH?

I only initate if I've been drinking b/c I feel like a retard when I do initiate the sex. Like my DH will make fun or something? Am I strange?

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  • i'd say me more...DH is a horn dog, but i think i have been more lately....maybe it's 50/50 ;)
  • Depends on the day.  We go back and forth depending how much we work.
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  • Depends on the day for us, too.  DH tends to wake up horny, so on the weekends, if we both have the mornings off, he'll be the one to initiate, usually.  I like unwinding sex, so if I want it in the evenings, I'll initiate, either during the week or on the weekends.

    I've found that with DH, if I want to initiate, I have to be very, very straightforward (we're talking I have to practically stick my hand down his pants).  That has saved me from trying, him not realizing what I'm up to and getting ignored.  :P

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  • It's probably about 50/50 for us. It really just depends.
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  • for me, it's more the husband....haha but im working on it!!

     

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  • um, your H makes fun of you for initiating sex? Sounds like a great guy....

    ::insert eyeroll here:: 

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  • With me its more the honey, I tend to when Im feeling really horny or when the kids are asleep or gone.
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    um, your H makes fun of you for initiating sex? Sounds like a great guy....

    ::insert eyeroll here:: 

     

    I don't think she meant that he is making fun of her, but that she fears he might.

  •    Where does the idea come from? That it's imoral, wrong,unlady like etc to initiate sex?
  • I am always initiating sex lately.  I wish I could DH to initiate more often.
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  • I initiate more, but DH says that's because I do it before he gets the chance.
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  • probably 50/50 for me.

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    I initiate more, but DH says that's because I do it before he gets the chance.

    This exactly.  I'm also currently unemployed, so he's very tired when he gets home.

  • I would have to say me, I am a bit older than DH and to be honest that's how our relationship startedm him being my boy toy. I have him spoiled rotten so he just sits and wait fo me to jump his bones. Every now and then he will get it started but i swear he would say he does it all the time:)

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