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i can't believe this actually happened, but i lost my wedding rings. or you could actually say that they were lost then stolen. dumb ass me took them off in a restaurant bathroom to wash my hands and use the lotion, then forgot them sitting on the counter. remembered 10 minutes later and they were gone. no one had come to the manager about it yet. and i KNOW that someone picked them up - crime of opportunity. this was in Charleston and we filed a police report, but i know they won't turn up. i'm so distraught over this and feeling like the biggest piece of crap, although DH is being so nice about it.

it's insured and i have questions about that whole process. if anyone knows about this (on our homeowners policy) please give me some guidance. i'll contact our insurance company in a few days after the police report is on file.

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  • I'm so so sorry!!!  That really sucks.  If it makes you feel better, you aren't alone.  The girl who writes one of my favorite cooking blogs lost hers too!  Here's the link.  I recommend her margarita method of coping!
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    Oh no! No advice, but I'm sorry!
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  • let me get some opinions on something. i wanted to post a lost/found ad on Craigslist, but DH thinks its a bad idea. he said someone might try selling it on there and we should keep looking that way instead, so we don't want to scare them off by posting an ad.

    so if this person does end up with a guilty conscience and tries to do the right thing, what would they most likely do? take it to the police station??

    we're hoping that it'll turn up in the Charleston area, maybe in a pawn shop. but if the theif was from out of town then there's no hope at all. i pretty much know it won't be found though.

  • I think I would agree with DH on this one.  I think it is more likely for someone to try to sell it on Craigslist than for the person to look for a lost message on that board.  If they wanted to turn it in, they would have probably told the restaurant manager that night or returned to the restaurant to give them back.  I don't think they would go to the police for fear of getting in trouble. 
  • I don't have any advice, but I wanted to say that I'm really sorry! I would be upset too.... *really* upset. :(

    I hope something comes out of this for you... preferably that you find the person who took your rings and you get them back.

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  • Oh my gosh, that really sucks!!  I'm sorry!!
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  • That really sucks. I'm sorry :(

    I'd call your homeowner's insurance and see if you can file a claim, though I'm not sure you'd be able to since this happened while on vacation.

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  • I'm so sorry Katie, that really sucks!  What kinds of questions did you have about your insurance?  I lost (or maybe had stolen) the diamond pendant DH gave me as a wedding gift and we filed a claim with our insurance company to have it replaced. 

    ETA:  We did not file a report, because we're not sure if it was lost or stolen, but the insurance company didn't require a report. 

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  • oh god, i hope it doesn't matter that i was out of town when it happened.

    i just called a pawn shop down there and talked with a lady who told me all about how the police process works with stolen goods. i hope this awful person tries to pawn it in Charleston. if that's the case, then i might have a chance to get it back.

  • that totally stinks! I hope they turn up and you get them back. I'm sure you feel naked without them!
  • We were out of town when mine went missing too, and the insurance company didn't care.  Hopefully the person will try to pawn it and you can get it back, but if you don't, I think you will be able to get them replaced through your insurance if you have them properly insured.
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  • Man o man!  What a disappointing end to your weekend.  For your sake, I really hope someone either tries to pawn the pieces in Charleston or forwhatever reason gives them back either to the restaurant or anonomously gives them back to the police.  My heart would be heavy if I ever lost my rings--I can only imagine how you feel.  Hopefully if the meanie stealers don't return them, that the insurance process is fairly easy for you and you are able to replace them without much hassle.
  • :(

    I'm sorry that you lost your rings.  I hope they are able to catch the person, or at least that you don't have to go through a bunch of hassle to get them replaced. 

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  • Oh no, how terrible!!! :(
  • I have no advice to offer. Just wanted to say I am so sorry that happened to you and give you a big 'ol e-hug!
  • I am so sorry this happened Katie! I wish people were more honest out there but given this economy people are desperate!  Anyways, I lost my wedding band about 2 yrs after our wedding.  We had them insured with our homeowners insurance and they were very nice about it, I just had to file a statement over the phone that it was lost and such and they sent a check out the next day to cover the cost of the ring, however we bought in 05 before platinum sky rocketed so sadly I did not find a similar ring for the same price I paid in 05 however it was pretty close....about $400 difference.

    Good luck!

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  • OH NO. Just don't beat yourself up over it. The rings are replaceable and it sounds like your DH is being loving and understanding through all of this and that's the best you could ask for. 

    Good Luck Hun!

  • Katie, I am so sorry! I really hope you're able to recover your rings, or at least have your insurance replace them. People who steal just suck. I hope one day karma bites them in the a$s. :(
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  • Oh my God, Katie.  I am so very sorry.  I hate to hear that you lost your rings, I know how this must make you sick to your stomach.  Thankfully they were insured!  It's awesome that your DH is being so supportive.  I hope somehow they turn up and you get them back!
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  • How awful! I'm so sorry Katie. I hope they catch them. GL!
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