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Re: He put it in your WHAT?
On my back, legs over his. It takes some practice, but it's really intimate and lets us kiss while it's happening.
DH is packing something heavy so I need to be in conrtol, so I like being on top. This allows for kissing as well.
Hooray for great butt sex! I've become a huge fan!!
with me sitting across the room watching him do that to someone else
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I think by far this is my favorite response!!!
Really? Your wedding night? That seems a poor choice in timing to try anal for the first time.
I'll take this option too please!
Doing it that night might put a little more pressure on you guys to "succeed". If you've never done any butt stuff before I would suggest playing around with it to test the waters first.
If you have any specific questions you can always PM me.
Um I agree a bit with the PP, depending where you guys are in your sexual life, it may be a bit much 4 wedding night. Then again, it's your wedding night. I'd say go with the flow, I like it better when we are already in the mix and it kinda just happens. Just pack some good lubs and relax:)
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2010weddinggal, I'm with the PPs who suggested perhaps not going for something completely foreign on your wedding night. What if one or both of you doesn't like it? Will that ruin the night for you? I would probably save it for the honeymoon, but not have my wedding night be dependent on trying something that might take some serious getting used to.
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Ditto this.
Not down with the butt sex AT ALL.
Ugh. We try every once in a while, but ouch! There are only two positions that have ever let him actually get in there.
1) My knees on the ledge of the bathtub [on a towel, gotta keep it comfy!] with my elbows/forearms actually on the floor of the tub with him standing behind me. This is super fabulous for regular sex as well.
2. Spooning. This helped because I could play with myself and try to ignore the fact that he was in my bootay.
This was discussed for our wedding night. We'd been active early on but never got that far. He got religion and decided to end our sexcapades for the last 6mos or so before we got married.
Glad we waited. First night in our new home together. Painful at first. Still doesn't do much for me but pleasing him kind of does it for me.
Personally I'd hold off until a less stressful time.