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What Would You Do?

Hi girls!  I am in a wedding and we are planning the bridal shower.  There are 4 girls in the wedding party and we have been working together on the shower by dividing things up.  Recently, we received an invitation sent out by one of the girls, which says she is hosting it (and not anyone else).  We are all quite ticked off because we are all paying, contributing, etc and she didn't recognize us.  The other 2 girls want to confront her...I am more of the type to bite my tongue for the sake of the bride.  What would you do in this situation? 
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Re: What Would You Do?

  • I would talk to the bridesmaid about it without involving the bride. You are definately right about not wanting to stress the bride out. If you don't say something to her about it the bitterness may not resolve and if she does something on the day of the wedding it could make matters worse which would be horrible. I say the sooner something is said the better. Confront her in a non threatening way. Good Luck!
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  • It should have said "given by the bridal party" and she is in the wrong here if you are all contributing.  I would go to her as a united front and tell her that you are all upset about her neglecting to include you all in the invitation.  I wouldn't go in balls to the wall, but just state how you all feel.
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