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f/u on my sis.

she was answering texts here and there, supposedly she stayed at a hotel last night but my BIL seems to think she's been drinking lately so that worries me as far as her driving to the hotel. I'm not even sure what to think. She's in danger of losing her job and theres so much other stuff going on. She's on antidepressants so drinking wine and that aren't so much a good combo.

 I didn't sleep well last night at all, i was up worrying/crying most the night. Now i'm stuck here at work and really wish i wasn't. No one has heard from her this morning yet. She's not in a good place and from what it seems like this is only the beginning. I'm just really freaked out and my sis is my best friends and my nieces are my life so it sucks all around. Hopefully she will come home today and my parents can talk to her.

Anyway, thanks for the thoughts and prayers :o/

Re: f/u on my sis.

  • WOW....im so sorry Pammy =( I don't even know what to say
  • aww Pammy I'm sorry. that really sucks. I hope you guys can get her the helps she needs
  • I'm sorry. I'm hoping she'll get a moment of clarity and ask for help. But I've been there, it's so hard being in that cloud. She'll be in my thoughts that she'll get the needed strength to get out.
  • I am so sorry Pam.  I can't begin to imagine how scary this is for all of you.  She will be in my thoughts.  I hope that she can get the help she needs.

  • Lots of T&Ps!!!!!!! I'm so sorry!!!!
  • I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this, Pam.  I hope your sister gets the help she needs.  *HUGS*
  • Oh my goodness, Pam!  I am just now reading your initial post along with the follow up.  I can't believe you are having to go through this!!  You must have been freaking out!

    I'll be praying for y'all!!  This is really scary and sad all at the same time.  **Hugs**

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  • I'm sorry for what your going through. If you feel like she is a danger to herself, you may want to call law enforcement for a welfare check and she can also be placed on a psychaitric hold if she's a danger too.
  • I'm sorry you are having to deal with this.  I hope everything works out and she just needed a night by herself and comes home and gets the help she needs.  That is really scary and unfair to do to your family.
  • :-( Oh Pammy, I'm so sorry this is happening. please keep us updated and I will absolutely keep her in my thoughts.
    My sister has been going thru aloooot at the moment also that I'm not ok airing online yet either, on top of her depression from the baby stuff from last year. So I think I have some similiar fears going on. So anytime, If u ever need to talk, you know my number & email.
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  • thanks ladies! she finally called to tell me she was back at home and sorry for worrying me like she did. my parents took the girls for the day and i'm still not sure how the rest of this will play out but at least i know she's ok from last night.

    I'm still shaken up and kind of stressed/mad/upset about the whole thing but thanks for being so supportive and keeping us in your T&P's   

  • wow, pammy, i'm so sorry you had to go through that.  i was under a LOT of stress at the end of my pregnancy and i totally attribute it to causing me to go into labor early.  (my unmedical opinion of course!)  take care of yourself! 
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    thanks ladies! she finally called to tell me she was back at home and sorry for worrying me like she did. my parents took the girls for the day and i'm still not sure how the rest of this will play out but at least i know she's ok from last night.

    I'm still shaken up and kind of stressed/mad/upset about the whole thing but thanks for being so supportive and keeping us in your T&P's   

    hope things only get better from here.  i'm sorry, pammy.

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