Girl on Top Question

BlondieWifey · February 2010

My husband and I have been trying some new things to our sex routine and one of them is having me on top. It doesn't seem to be going so well...Do you have any suggestions that might be a help...

ReturnOfKuus · February 2010

What's going poorly about it? Is the movement awkward? The sensation not what you hoped for? Something else?

BlondieWifey · February 2010

I can't seem to get the movement down, and the sensation isn't that great for me...It seems like it is over so much faster too. I don't think DH is being completely satisfied either. He says that it is great, but I can't seem to get the whole thing down.

Mortomo · February 2010

I hear ya....I have problems with this position too. It does nothing for me, but DBF likes it. I think men like it because they have front access to your boobs!

ReturnOfKuus · February 2010

Yeah, it is awkward at first, and it works muscles that you rarely use, even if you keep fit. I remember first trying that out too. The very first time we tried it, the movement was so awkward and we had so much trouble figuring it out that we just lost interest and went and made dinner!

If you don't like the way it feels, though, then you don't HAVE to keep trying it. To be honest, it's not my favorite either.

runawaywifey · February 2010

BlondieWifey:
I can't seem to get the movement down, and the sensation isn't that great for me...It seems like it is over so much faster too. I don't think DH is being completely satisfied either. He says that it is great, but I can't seem to get the whole thing down.

I can definitely relate to this. It's not my fav position. It has gotten better with time. One of us usually enjoys the clit access.

ElleestJenn · February 2010

I with you on it, the top isn't my favorite position. My FI loves it but it does nothing for me. You could use a vibrator to help with the stimulation.?

vlagrl29 · February 2010

being on top is one of my favorite positions. you can just sit on him and move/grind back and forth on him, but when i lift up and bend foward a little and H thrusts into me, that is amazing for orgasms.

vlagrl29 · February 2010

also you can play with yourself better on top i think, put a vibrating c@ckring on him and that will help too

candaceleigh21 · February 2010

Being on top is my favorite...I cannot O any other way. It helps VERY much if you lean forward instead of trying to sit straight up because you have more freedom to move. You should also try to get him to bend his knees up instead of leaving them flat on the bed. If you are having trouble getting it, try to sit on top, facing him while he sits on the couch, you will learn how to grind easier!

jonesdouglas · February 2010

vlagrl29:
being on top is one of my favorite positions. you can just sit on him and move/grind back and forth on him, but when i lift up and bend foward a little and H thrusts into me, that is amazing for orgasms.

this.

Camok87 · February 2010

BlondieWifey:

I can't seem to get the movement down, and the sensation isn't that great for me...It seems like it is over so much faster too. I don't think DH is being completely satisfied either. He says that it is great, but I can't seem to get the whole thing down.

I can relate to this too.. I was the same at first, but it just takes a bit of practice! Hang in there, it gets easier. still not one of my favourite positions but its still good to mix things up now and again!

jsmithoregon · February 2010

I find it difficult too. I have little feeling. I found if you lay more forward and try to get your clitoris rubbing on his penis you get more feeling. But don't lean too far forward or he comes out of you. Just keep trying. I noticed I get really tired, I dont know how guys do all that on top stuff, woooohooo its hard. Just ask him to give you advice on what feels good to him and he can help you...try a few things yourself as well. Communication is the key.

BlondieWifey · February 2010

Thanks for the help! I will have to give all of your suggestions a try!!

litlmermaid12992 · February 2010

i would check out sexinfo101.com

they have great girl on top position ideas

Gracie6414 · February 2010

I have always enjoyed it on top - what really helped for me was if he bent his knees and thrust into me, while i was bent forward supporting my weight on my arms beside his head.. when your ready thrust back against his thurst = amazing! If you sit up on him, just thrust your hips back and forth, like regular hip thursts, often your clit can rub against his hars and feels great!

Use the bed in your favour too! If your a fan of doggy style - try revers cowgirl (girl on top facing away) he;ll ben into the G-spot!!

Always always always get him to help find the sports that feel good for him, help him find good sports for you.. and enjoy it! If he loves you and thinks your sexy don't worry what you look like .. just feel it!

GL

Pinkplasticdoll · February 2010

Also you could try with your feet on the bed instead of being on your knees.

Sexinfo101.com shows you how to do this with your feet on the bed instead of your knees.

hannahjoy0 · February 2010

I love being on top, but it didn't always use to be that way. Here are some things you might try:

-you leaning forward on your arms (on the bed or on his chest)

-not only going back & forth - try circling around or figure-8 patterns with your movements

-putting your feet forward on the bed (so you're sitting on him, you can hug your knees - this is my O position!)

-lying flat on him face to face, your legs together, use your arms around his neck to control thrusting

-have him grab your hips and do some of the work for you!

-when you get tired, have him sit up (both of you sitting) which is another fun position

Enjoy!

EriksPrincess · April 2010

try grinding more/back and forth than the up and down movement

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