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Sex toys- a no or a go?
Lately Ive been wondering if sex toys would make a good addition to the bedroom. How are your experiences with them? Are they worth it?
And how do I suggest it to the Hubby?
Re: Sex toys- a no or a go?
Yes, yes, yes!
If there's a specific toy you want to try, look it up online one night and show it to him to gauge his interest. It you just want to talk to him about toys in general, mention it in a sexy voice while you're pleasuring him and tell him how hot you think it would be to try using some toys. Then you can have a more logistical conversation after you're both spent.
BFP on Jan. 18; EDD Oct. 1
I really think they can help enhance the sexual relationship. Start with something minor like a bullet, and if you like that then go from there. Adam and eve.com and healthy and active.com have some good toys and you can shop from home without the sleezy sex toy store pervert feeling.
You can also host a party from Passion Parties, Slumber Parties, and many other companies.
Best of luck!
Sex toys are awesome.
To Initiate: Say to your H: "hey sugarbunz what do you think about using a vibrator on me later tonight. Would you like to take a trip to the porn store to go buy one:?
My guess is he will pop some wood, do you, take you to the porn store and then do you when you get home!
Raeyn-
Thanks, thats a good way to introduce it. In the moment, im sure he'll just agree to anything! Then the ice is broken for a conversation later.. i like it!
CA2MT4EveR-
Ive always wanted to attend a passion party, is there any way to know where local parties are being hosted? Ive tried to search online.
I definitely say go for it! They are fun and a great way to try new things in the bedroom. My FI and I have a couple things and they really spice up our sex life!
ETA: As to introducing it to your SO, just flat out ask him if he is interested in anything like that. If he is hesitant, explain why you want to try them or introduce the idea to him slowly. I think you just might find men are intrigued by the idea, especially if he gets to use one on you or watch you use on on yourself! GL!
Thanks- those all help me out a lot.
One more question- what do I say to him if he says he feels like toys are used because he doesnt "do it" well? I had this problem getting him to use lube- he said we shouldnt need extra lube if he's doing his job.
But when he finally agreed to try it- he loves it!
Oh definitely a go!!! It took a while for the fiance to get his mind around it, but he says if I go out and get what i want from the naughty shop we can use it. He doesn't like going into the sex shop and seeing a bunch of dongs. Understandable.
I'd suggest getting something small to start with, like a vibrating bullet, as to not scare him off. Don't even tell him you got it. Just whip it out midsex and see his face light up from the unexpected buzz. Make sure to use it on him too! Try the base of his shaft. Good luck!
hell yeah! Sex toys are great for both parties.
I would just buy one and then whip it out after a little foreplay.