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Back again . . .
I posted on here probably sometime last fall or before that - I can't remember. Not sure if anyone else remembers - but I had virtually a sexless marriage you could say. DH was on medication - and we just weren't doing it because he was never in the mood. Well - I also had problems O'ing. I don't think I ever said that before. But - I seem to get a little something and then it's like - oh - that's it? It bothered me - but never enough to really look into it. I just figured it was my weight or something. Well - we are now trying to do it at least once a week. And I always figured what ever I got I got. It felt good no matter what! Before we literally would go months and months without it! I think once we went at least 5 or 6 months without it! Um - yeah I know - not good. We don't do that anymore. Well a couple of weeks back I actually had a major O. In fact, I think it was my first major O with my husband in about 3 or 4 years! It actually affected me so much I was overcome with emotion. I figured out what was different too - stress. For the past 3 years at least - I've been in debt and paying off credit cards and loans from before me and my husband were married. Well - wouldn't ya know - now I've paid EVERYTHING off and the only things I owe on are the typical stuff - cell phone, mortgage - stuff acquired with my husband and NO credit cards. I'm finally able to put alot more money in the bank. Who woulda thunk that stress like that was doing so much to my sex life!
Re: Back again . . .
I think that people forget that your brain and your genitals are wired together. Your brain was too preoccupied to allow yourself to be in the moment with your husband and prevented you from fully enjoying yourself.
Congrats and may you have many more orgasms!
That is really great news !