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I don't like you, and fork your birthday...

Hey guys... long time no see...Still juggling a billion hours at work, and rode 67 miles on my bike yesterday.

 

DH seriously sucks! So, I've been planning his Top Secret 40th Birthday trip to Vegas for like 6 months- I have most of it paid for. He normally ignored the finances, but we're putting in a(another ) offer on a house, so all of the sudden he wants full financial disclosure. This all comes up after I got off the bike, and while I'm still trying to gobble down some post-ride soup. I'm so pisst I can't stand it. Now he's all excited that we're going to Vegas, when I personally could just cancel the whole trip, told me we couldn't go out to breakfast, and I've totally wasted my 2nd Sunday off in 6 months....I really hope he gets eaten my a dragon while pe plays his online game....I'm now drinking champagne, nursing achy muscles, and shooting him death glares whenever I get the chance. The irony? It's 1 in 1 million that we'll get the house....

 

Thanks for listening....

 

Re: I don't like you, and fork your birthday...

  • So the subject of your post refers to your husband, not me, right?

  • You're going to need to explain why in the world you rode your bike for 67 miles.
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  • I hate when surprises get ruined!  Especially when it is something as exciting as surprise get away!  I hope you two have fun nonetheless and don't cancel your trip!!!

    Congrats on riding 67 miles- what an accomplishment! 

    I totally hear you on the house front.  We have been looking and making offers since November.  We finally have a little bit on movement on one of our offers so fingers crossed.  Just try to be patient if you can.  I think the housing market in CA is astonishingly competitive right now.  Best of luck on finding your dream home.

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  • DOH! It just figures this would be the ONE time he looks a the finances. Grrrr. Angry Well, on a more positive note, if you get this house, it would be worth ruining the surprise, right? Have fun on your trip and holy lord, how do you bike 67 miles??!! I'd keel over, no doubt.
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  • Thanks ladies! Karen, I sparkly heart you all, and yeah, it was DH (for Dumb Husband) I was so angry at.

    It just sucked that 6 months worth of planning blew up. It ruined my weekend (my 2nd one off in 7 moths) and I was psst. 

    I'm feeling better today, but am still pretty miffed; I told DH it would just take a while. 

    Nicole- We've been looking for a year, and this will be our "lucky 13th" offer (not including all the near misses!) I'm just out of SF, and the California market is red hot for anything with 4 walls and a roof. I'll think happy thoughts for ya. 

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