North Dakota Nesties
Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Confession Thursday
I'm a PW this morning. As some of you know, I'm doing TTD session for a HS classmate, to help build his portfolio, at a horse farm this Saturday. My dress has been in a trash bag in my closet since our AHR on 11/28. It was filthy but I didn't want to pay a couple hundred to have it cleaned just to drag it through the dirt. So I washed my $2500 gown (I bought the sample and didn't pay that much) in my bath tub. I figured it went in the ocean and didn't get effed up so what the hell. It come out perfect. I might start a dress cleaning business, lol.
Re: Confession Thursday
That's awesome because you have a nice, clean dress (for free!) and you are going to take some kick ass TTD photos (for free!) Sounds like an all around win for you
My confession (I actually have a somewhat juicy one this time):
I haven't talked to my "bff" since early March & my life has never been less stressful.
We don't talk all the time, but we do text quite often and talk on FB, and we have had almost no contact at all in about 6 weeks. Something feels different this time, like the end of something, and honestly... never felt more at ease in my life. 
Which of course makes me feel guilty.
Yes it is the same friend. She did try to call me several weeks ago, but I was in the gym, called her back, & never heard anything back again sooo... whatever. I'm actually very ok with where things stand right now. We're at extremely different places in our lives & we want different things out of life. That not to say different kinds of people can't be friends, but I think we were friends under X circumstances, and maybe our friendship just can't evolve to live in Y circumstances. Ya know?
umm NO! We've talked about this...you ARE NOT ALLOWED to feel guilty! STOP IT!
It gets easier...promise!
I know, I know! It's the Catholic in me. LOL. j/k! I'm getting better, I promise
Mine has been in the guest room closet since we got back from the wedding, (although we did shower it off and dry it all out in Mexico) and I reeeeaaally don't want to spend the 300 buckers to clean it. Maybe a little bath will do.
My confession: Ever since we got back I've been fascinated with trying to concieve... now dont get me wrong - we have NO plans to start trying right now, but the whole cycle charting/planning etc for some reason intrigues me. So, at one point i was investigating the bump, and looking at the boards, the 'TTC" one, and I found a group of women that are soooo mean to new people! They have been there for a while, know EVERYTHING there is to know, and when people ask questions, they tell them how stupid they are for asking it. There is NO support, unless you're part of the ten of them that are 'in' and its CRAZY. (Isn't support the point of the boards? and learning/sharing info? I don't get it)
Now, I am addicted to the board... not because I"m learning anything (because people own't help out) but to see how people respond when the group turns on them for asking if there's anything the man can do to help him spermies. I know... I'm a wack job. And now you all know it. This is probably why i'm addicted to the hills and like shows.
ok. margarita to those who made it through!
Hahahaha, DH too!! He would NEVER admit it... but he never leaves the room when its on!!