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New toy to bring in the bedroom?

    Me and my SO have been in a rut since our son was born in December. We maybe have sex once every couple week, and it is always the same old (kind of getting a bit boring) sex. I am trying to spice it up and do something different.

   We have a couple toys ( A small rabbit vibrator and a bigger one with bumps.) I am looking for another toy that we both can use together, and that will give us the much needed spice to our sex life. 

 Any advice is welcome. Thanks

 

Re: New toy to bring in the bedroom?

  • Have you tried the Trojan vibrating ring? You have to buy the condom to get the toy (LOL - kind of like a grown up cracker jack box).

     

    http://www.amazon.com/Trojan-Vibrating-Latex-Condom-Improved/dp/B001ECQ6G0

     Your H can wear it during sex, and it should be similar to the vibrator with bumps that you mentioned above. Some guys seem to find these pleasurable as well and some guys are neutral on them.

    Have you tried buying some new lingerie as well? That might be kind of fun.

    Hope is not a strategy.
  • I agree with pp. I really the vibrating ring, and my fiance loves it too. It feels great for the both of us, in any position.

    Try having sex in a different place. Go for a drive and park in a parking lot somewhere, or if you have a truck go for a drive somewhere and make a bed in the back of it.

  • imageZestofLime:

    Have you tried the Trojan vibrating ring? You have to buy the condom to get the toy (LOL - kind of like a grown up cracker jack box).

     

    http://www.amazon.com/Trojan-Vibrating-Latex-Condom-Improved/dp/B001ECQ6G0

     Your H can wear it during sex, and it should be similar to the vibrator with bumps that you mentioned above. Some guys seem to find these pleasurable as well and some guys are neutral on them.

    Have you tried buying some new lingerie as well? That might be kind of fun.

    We have used the Durex ring. And i bought some lingerie on v-day, he loved it. But it is so expensive in my town. I guess its really no different in price than the toys.

  • You could always wait until Victoria's Secret has a sale and stock up. :)
    Hope is not a strategy.
  • imageZestofLime:
    You could always wait until Victoria's Secret has a sale and stock up. :)

     

    I would have to order online, there is not one in my town lol. 

  • Oh! I see you are in Alberta.

    I've been to Edmonton and Cold Lake AFB.

    I'm guessing you probably order a lot of stuff online, then.

    Hope is not a strategy.
  • Or take the four hour drive to Edmonton. (harder now with the baby). We have a la senza tho
  • Try to find a different time of day that is good for both of you too.  When we had little ones, nap time was a good time for us.  we had energy and some privacy then.  If I waited until the evening, I was too tired. 
    DS1 age 7, DD age 5 and DS2 born 4/3/12
  • i agree with all of the pp's about the vibrating rings.. but those are all temporary.. they do make more permanent vibrating *** rings as well, that are more expensive, but will last longer and you don't just throw away.

     

     

  • We recently bought a silicone *** ring that came with a small silicone vibrator. They were pink and light blue =) sort of for him and for her and they both vibrate. My DH loooves it. And it was not very expensive (about $35 for both?). You can always find affordable toys.

    do some research on www.babeland.com They are a great store. 

  • imagekristinafausto:

    do some research on www.babeland.com They are a great store. 

    Do they send you a lot of junk mail? I used adamandeve.com around a year ago and I am still getting junk mail from them... Its not even discreet, it will be like a postcard with a half naked girl on and in huge letters will say "THANKS FOR YOUR LAST PURCHASE, TRY THESE NEW ADULT FILMS"... We live in a apartment complex.. Its embarrassing lol

     

    Long story short, I am looking for a new site to order toys from lol. 

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