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Is it possible for your body to get "used to" the curve of your partner's penis? DH curves to one side (just a little bit), and we generally always have sex in positions where we are facing each other, so the curve always goes the same direction inside of me. We tried doggy once but it just did not feel right to me, and I later felt kind of bruised on the "other" side of my vag...almost like it wasn't used to having the curve go to that side. I'd like to try some other positions, but I'm a little afraid that the same thing will happen again. Anyone else experience this?
Re: Used to his curve?
It's just a little curved, and doesn't hurt me at all in the positions we normally have sex in. That's just why I'm confused about why some positions don't work as well, and why I was sore that one time...it maybe was for a completely different reason all together!
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And to OP, no, I have not experienced a curvy penis that hurts my vag. I'm sure it can't be that bad (right?). Just keep trying new things! If you don't like it, then don't continue doing it.
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My hubby curves up. It's perfect for any position where we're facing each other, or even doggy style, but there's this one move that he seems to love where I'm on my side and he lifts my leg up, so I'm sideways to him. Oh my goodness the way his penis hits kills me. So we just avoid that position.
It did take awhile for doggy to feel good though, since it felt like he was scraping that part of my vagina, whereas if we were facing each other he just consistently hits my G spot. We just kept trying it every once in awhile and eventually it feels fabulous. I always felt sore, though, never bruised. So maybe he just dove a little too deep while in that position for you.
I have a pronounced upward curve and my experience is that women do like and enjoy it and find it 'different' but that some positions are impossible for some women and things MUST be taken gently at first while you are both finding out the possibilities. In addition, just like men can have curves and different shape so too is the vagina very different in shape and curve from one woman to another so there can be no 'rules' that apply to everyone.
Just as examples; one of my previous partners refused rear penetration after the first time because she found my curve very unpleasant but another woman really enjoyed it and loved to clench her muscles to try to straighten it out! She said it was a mixture of "pain and pleasure" and contibuted greatly to her orgasm!
You just have to experiment with lots of different positions and angles until you are both 'lined up' the best way!