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vacation poll (clicky)

What do you consider to be a real vacation, based on the length of the vacation?[Poll]

Re: vacation poll (clicky)

  • I was talking about this subject with Ted. Well actually this subject has come up quite a few times.

    To me a real vacation is at least 5 days. I just can't get into vacation mode & relax in a weekend. Ted, on the other hand, thinks anytime you get out of town is a real vacation. If it's a couple of days to visit friends, that's a vacation to him. To me that's more of a "trip" than a vacation.

  • I say 5 days + anything less is just a long weekend.
  • I said 3-4 days, but it depends on the vacation.  DH and I were kind of restless after spending a week in Key West and most of our vacations so far have been of the "long weekend" variety.  We both agree that the only exception would be if we were on a tour (like in Europe where you can visit multiple countries) or a cruise since you have multiple ports to visit.
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  • I don't consider anything less than the amount of time and energy it's taken you to get there.  For example when we went to the DR the first time, traveling was almost a full day each way and we only stayed 3 days.  Although I had some relaxing time, it didn't seem like a real vacation.  Just a little getaway.
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    I say 5 days + anything less is just a long weekend.

    I agree.  It's not a real vacation unless I get a significant break from work.

  • 5 days to a week or longer is a real vacation for us.

    DH and I call the 3-4 trips "weekend getaways".

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  • I think my idea of a vacation is defined by why we're taking it and the effort put into planning rather than length. Like if I extend a work trip - not a vacation. If we're visiting family in Nebraska - not a vacation. If we're doing a weekend somewhere close to us - not a vacation.

    Key West last fall was only 4 nights, and I considered that a vacation. I would consider a long weekend to the tropics a vacation.

  • imageMrs.N.H.:

    5 days to a week or longer is a real vacation for us.

    DH and I call the 3-4 trips "weekend getaways".

    This exactly. A "getaway" is not the same as a vacation

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  • imagenatalie115:
    imageMrs.N.H.:

    5 days to a week or longer is a real vacation for us.

    DH and I call the 3-4 trips "weekend getaways".

    This exactly. A "getaway" is not the same as a vacation

    Exactly!

    I need to explain the difference between a "getaway" and a "vacation" to my husband, lol. Luckily, since I feel so strongly about it, he is willing to go along with almost anything. It's not like I'm trying to always get us into taking several week long vacations each year. I just want one good, long vacation. :)

  • I voted 5 - 7 days.  But I think it all depends on where you're going and what you plan on doing while you're there.  We were only in Seattle 4 days and I would have loooved to have stayed longer.  I wish taking vacations was my job.
  • I realized that we need 7+ days to really have a vacation.  We'd always taken that in the past, but opted for only 6 days for the babymoon and I don't even feel like I went on a vacation this year.  We will never go away for less than 8 days again.
  • I said 7 days... To me...I need to be off an entire week and two weeks, which is a solid 7+days for it to be a really enjoyable worthwhile vacation. 


    Otherwise I'm just taking days off... not taking a vacation!

  • I get where you all are coming from, but the actual destination to me is more important than the length in whether I'm willing to call it a vacation. 2 week trip to Nebraska - not vacation. 4 nights in Maui (our first trip to Hawaii was this short) - vacation.
  • imagehawaiianbride08:
    I get where you all are coming from, but the actual destination to me is more important than the length in whether I'm willing to call it a vacation. 2 week trip to Nebraska - not vacation. 4 nights in Maui (our first trip to Hawaii was this short) - vacation.

    I agree with this too.  5+ days is not my only requirement for a "real" vacation.  ie. visiting family in NY = not a vacation.

  • Agree with most above - a weekend is not a vacation. A week is :) Oh, how I want a vacation! 
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