Does your guy do this too?

**TakeTwo** · April 2010

The past 3 men I've had sex with have all put their boxers back on immediately after sex and then would cuddle. Do most men do this? I was just wondering because I have no problem cuddling naked....

Akosua817 · April 2010

I think they do it so their stuff doesn't get pulled or twisted while their sleeping. My husband says it's uncomfortable letting it hang out there like that.

Lil'BlackDress · April 2010

H does this too, I asked him once and he said it's because after sex he continues to "leak" a little so he puts the boxers on to just kinda contain it, it makes it more comfortable for him so that he can cuddle without worrying about leaking on me.

DeniseandBrad · April 2010

no clothes allowed, not even underwear in the bed.

purple.cow.0206 · April 2010

DH does this. It's a little bizarre to me, but I'm someone that is comfortable sleeping in the nude.

riderpunk · April 2010

DH does this. We have dogs, neither of us can sleep naked. We don't have heat in our bedroom so clothes go on quickly.

monkeygirl18 · April 2010

Ummm...no. No clothes on in bed.

anna2029 · April 2010

My DH will NOT sleep nude. He puts boxers on immediately after. He says wearing boxers to sleep is more comfy and he simply won't sleep naked. It bothers me!

szynskin · April 2010

H does this for the leakage issue mentioned above.

MarisaDolce · April 2010

Not all guys put on the boxers right after. I'd say it has been 50/50 with the guys I've been with.

kbhaynes · April 2010

my hubby does it too.

Mrs.Rad888 · April 2010

DH always has his boxers on in bed. He says the boys need the support.

It doesn't bother me, it's not like he is trying to cover himself from me.

jonesdouglas · April 2010

Im sure that every guy is different...My H doesn't do this..

corrie31 · April 2010

My hubby doesn't do this. He is very comfy with not having anything on. I like it because closer then that you wouldn't get. And another thing is when you turn around and feel your hubby's naked body against you, you know thats where you wana be. Enjoy that nakedness while it last.

binzy2524 · April 2010

The guys I was with depended on size. It seemed the guys with average to small penis always stayed naked. The men with the bigger penis put boxers on. it makes perfect sense.

Lovestojam · April 2010

I think it really just depends on the guys comfort level. I've had gus with smaller ones who always covered-up, always wondered if it was them being self conscious. But then again, even the monster big ones would some time cover-up. Though funny enough I did have a BF many years ago who was proud of his instrument, and I mean he was huge, and he loved to walk around my then apartment with it hanging out. It really used to make me laugh as it always kind of looked like this huge cartoon elephant trunk hanging out and swinging around. Now, DH is pretty freaking big and I can't seem to keep clothes on the man. Sleeps naked, cuddles naked, would probably be naked all of the time if he could. Now, I feel very fortunate that, unlike the BF from back in the day who was rather cocky (and yes pun was intended), DH is just very comfortable with himself and his size.

texaspride00 · April 2010

My DH doesn't do that. We've always slept nude.

MrsSmiley09 · April 2010

My H sleeps naked. So he doesn't. If it's sex in the middle of the day he will usually put his boxers and pants on right after a minute of cuddling.

OMG Guinea Pigs!! · April 2010

DeniseandBrad:
no clothes allowed, not even underwear in the bed.

Yes

mrskels09 · April 2010

My HUSBAND never wears clothes in bed even when we are not having sex. Maybe they do not want you looking at their penises I mean some guys worry about that

InkedGaugedMama · April 2010

H does this. He is very self conscious about his butt though, so I think thats his reason

JayU79 · April 2010

I always do that! It's just habit now. We have 4 kids though with one being a 13 year old girl who I don't want coming in my room one morning and seeing my junk hanging out. It is a more comftorable being supported too. Definately don't put them back on until we're completely done , cuddling and all! Don't women with big boobs usually have to wear bras to bed for support and comfort?

LoveBug10-09 · May 2010

I don't know that size has anything to do with it. My hubby isn't small and he doesn't put his boxers right back on... I usually get up and go to the bathroom and we cuddle naked for awhile. But he always sleeps in his boxers.

CollegeGrrl219 · May 2010

JayU79:
I always do that! It's just habit now. We have 4 kids though with one being a 13 year old girl who I don't want coming in my room one morning and seeing my junk hanging out. It is a more comftorable being supported too. Definately don't put them back on until we're completely done , cuddling and all! Don't women with big boobs usually have to wear bras to bed for support and comfort?

No. I have huge boobs, and I prefer to let them hang loose when I'm laying down. Anytime I'm upright, I need a bra, but not for sleeping.

And to answer the original question, my DH stays naked.

MarynJoe · May 2010

I have never been with a guy who put his boxers on right after sex. I've never even heard of that!

abby&raul · May 2010

My husband does that too! He says it is more comfortable with boxers on, but sometimes if we fall asleep right after he won't.

bandc1126 · May 2010

My hubby does this too. If we were just fooling around and I would take care of him, before he could return the favor, he needed his boxers on... I've gotten the same explanation of leakage too.

Mikes Sweetpea · May 2010

My DH does because he leaks a little after sex.

2carbuffs · May 2010

H doesn't mind cuddling naked.

NoNotTufts · May 2010

binzy2524:
The guys I was with depended on size. It seemed the guys with average to small penis always stayed naked. The men with the bigger penis put boxers on. it makes perfect sense.

On a related note, I cover up.

The reason for me is the continued leakage (that stuff gets sticky), and the fact that if I slept naked with my wife I'd probably try and sleep-hump her all night.

Hurricane38 · May 2010

I have to remind my H to put clothes on just to take the dog out! So no, he doesn't put boxers on. He does go to the bathroom real quick to squeeze the rest out, I guess, but thats it.

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