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Making love..NO THANKS

I am enjoying being married to my husband..but sometimes I am just not interested in sex. It is almost like while we are doing it I daze out or start watching TV. It's not that he is bad at it..He is really amazing at sex but sometimes I am just not in the mood or will start out in the mood and then while we are doing it completely get un-interested. I am just wondering what is wrong with me? I am wondering what I should do

Re: Making love..NO THANKS

  • I can see dazing out but the "or start watching tv" kinda throws me, when exactly do you turn the tv on, and if it's on when you start why not turn it off before you really get into it to lessen the distractions?   I wouldn't be able to concentrate on sex if there were other things happening around me.

    also your sig "my surprise babies" made me laugh...

  • I wouldn't be interested in sex either if I'd just given birth less than 3 weeks ago.
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  • imagetaylormillgirl:
    I wouldn't be interested in sex either if I'd just given birth less than 3 weeks ago.

    This.

    Have you tried turning the tv off? 

  • Actually, you shouldn't be having sex before you get the OK from your doctor which is generally 4-6 weeks pp.
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  • imageGeek_Girl:
    Actually, you shouldn't be having sex before you get the OK from your doctor which is generally 4-6 weeks pp.

    I am not talking about having sex now. I also had a c-section even though you have to wait for that to but still

  • It's okay if you're not into it all the time. What do you do to try and get your head back into the game as it were?

    I'd turn the tv off first, that would be too much of a distraction. Have you talked about adding something into your lovemaking (role playing, etc)? Does your H know about any of this?

  • Ok...so at what point in your sex life did you start to zone out?  Before you were pregnant?  While you were pregnant?
  • imagemrskels09:

    imageGeek_Girl:
    Actually, you shouldn't be having sex before you get the OK from your doctor which is generally 4-6 weeks pp.

    I am not talking about having sex now. I also had a c-section even though you have to wait for that to but still

    soooo then....what's the point of your post?

  • TROLL - check her other posts (even more ridiculous ones have been DD)
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  • imageMycrimsonheart:
    TROLL - check her other posts (even more ridiculous ones have been DD)

    If she's really a troll, that's the weakest MUD ever.

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  • Yeah....if my H was amazing at sex I'd be more interested in watching TV too.

    MUD.

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  • imagetaylormillgirl:

    imageMycrimsonheart:
    TROLL - check her other posts (even more ridiculous ones have been DD)

    If she's really a troll, that's the weakest MUD ever.

    I agree but most of her posts just don't make any sense for her situation, one was over a week ago about how she's working on getting her body back..only a week after giving birth to twins?

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  • imagetaylormillgirl:
    I wouldn't be interested in sex either if I'd just given birth less than 3 weeks ago.

    Um...Neither would I.. 

  • I have that same problem but i know the reason for my lack of interest, I have endometriosis. However I (in my search for answers) have read that a low sex drive can be becuase of our age  most women lose there drive from around 25-35. Another thing coud be if your not having sex enough if its not frequent (atleast a couple times a week) you loose your mojo a great site i found is http://www.themarriagebed.com/pages/problem/desire/lackdesire.shtml

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