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Huh...my ex is gonna be a dad
I'm not UNhappy for him...but it's weird that I am not happy for him. It's odd. We were together a long time, bought a home together, then he just "checked out" and we decided, after a long time of pretending nothing was wrong, to go our seperate ways. He really pulled some crap on me, and it took me a long time to get to a good place with him. I almost always grab a drink with him when I'm in Calgary...but there is always this slightly uncomfortable vibe. We still have a ton of mutual friends so I have always made the effort to stay civil. I never wanted kids...but he was the only person I think I would have done that for - cause he wanted it. Now someone else is doing it...I don't know. It's so weird.
Not sure if there is a point here...just rambling.
Re: Huh...my ex is gonna be a dad
I think what you are feeling is completely normal.
I think if my ex and I ended on better terms than we did I would similiar to how you are feeling.
I think what you are feeling is normal.
I'm sure it seems very weird.