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Remember my ex-bf's sis who is also pg?

Remember I posted a month or two ago that my ex-bf's sister was pregnant and due three days before me, and we were both delivering at the same hospital?

Well, we hadn't talked in a few weeks and she just told me that her due date was moved back....to August 31.....which is MY due date.....

Think the odds that we would be there are the same time are better now????  (my deal with that, if you don't remember, is that - as much as I like this girl - my ex-bf and his family are not exactly the people I want to see while I am giving birth...)

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Re: Remember my ex-bf's sis who is also pg?

  • LOL! You are too funny Danielle! Due dates are not written in stone. I would not worry...if it does happen, then you have a right to tell me "I told you so!" but I think you will not have any encounter with them!


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  • I understand how this would make you anxious, but really, I agree with Lawby, the odds of being in labor at the same time are still slim unless you are having a scheduled c-section.  Also, I don't understand why that family would be seeing you anyway.... They might run into your family in the waiting room, but if you are in labor in a room, then you are basically stuck in that room, and the only people that can enter are those you authorize, am I correct?  Why would they be waltzing into your room?  If you are really concerned, then maybe request the hospital place you far away from the other mother?  Or just clarify who is allowed to visit you and who is not, that way you don't get these people trying to "visit" you as "friends" if you give specific names of people who are allowed....

    Don't stress!  :)

  • Well, the sister (my friend) has said it would be fun if we were hospital "roomies"....so that would up the odds that I would run into the family by a ton! :-)

     This is her second, and my first, so maybe that will mean something in terms of due dates - is she supposed to go early and I go later, or is it reversed?  I don't know :-) 

    Anyway, she and I get along great (we are making plans to meet up soon) and I have no "issues" with the ex-bf or his family (we stayed "friends" sort of).  It's just not who I want to see at that moment in my life!

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  • I think it's unlikely that you'll cross paths and unless by freak accident you end up as roomies, there's no reason she would even know that you were there at the same time, unless you are roaming the halls.  Since you get released so quickly nowadays, you'd have to deliver within a day of each other to overlap at all. 
  • I wouldn't worry about it.  Agree with the other ladies that it isn't likely.
  • It will be like the Friend's episode with Janice in the same room as Rachel!  haha

     

    Good luck!

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