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G-spot (vaginal) orgasm
I've always been able to achieve clitoral orgasms...In fact, I can have one in under 2 minutes.
However, I've never had a vaginal orgasm (I think. If I had one, I would know, right?) I bought the Hummingbird vibrator this past weekend and started exploring. The thing is, I have no idea for what kind of feelings I should be watching out for. I'm also unsure how long it's supposed to take (if that makes any sense). I was trying for about an hour....aaaaand then the batteries went dead and since the new pack was in the kitchen and I didn't feel like going to get them, I called of the mission.
I'm not sure if this is it, but when I *thought* I was close, it felt like I was gonna pee myself, so I stopped. This has also happened during sex previously, but I made my DH stop...
Not sure if this has anything to do with it, but I'm 26, married for 7 years.We still have sex almost every other day and it's great. Even if I don't feel like doing it in the first place, I'll do it anyways...because it's like working out. You might not want to do it, but when it's over, you're glad you did.
Re: G-spot (vaginal) orgasm
Next time put some towels down. And yep I'm gonna say it - So what if you "pee", bet it feels incredible. You can not pee during sex, it could be squirting, or it could just be the feeling of friction against the opening to your urethra. As long as it still feels good, why stop? So the bed gets wet, clean it up after and enjoy the ride! Get hubby in on the action too.
Check out some books on the G-spot. For most, if you have hubby instert 1 or 2 fingers into your vagina, palm up and have him do the "come here" motion with his fingers all the way inside of you, it should feel a hell of a lot different, and better then straight up in and out penetration. This feeling will be heightened by already being turned on (use the vide on your clit to get you engorged and wet).
aaaannnd, enjoy. Also enjoy finding out all the new ways to be pleasured and pelasure yourself!
Felt like you were going to pee?
You were right there hon. I SWORE I'd peed first time I hit the mark. A conversation with my ob/gyn let me know this was a normal sensation.
As for the BJ, sounds like it's something that doesn't come (heh-heh-heh) naturally to you. Give him a HJ if necessary but like in a previous post, just remind him how lucky he is.
I would just like to say that as a female, yes you can urinate during sex. I understand it's quite common, especially if you've had children and your pelvic musles are weakened to do it involuntarily.
Men physically can not because when they are hard the bladder valve is closed. In ladies, there is no such similar urine blocking devise when they are turned on.
If you felt like you had to pee, you were right on the verge!
Next time, don't stop!!
Well mrsbooboo, you have just cut yourself short of the best ORGASM you could ever have had by stopping at that point ? thinking you were about to pee; since you would not have peed at all. This is the type of Big ?O? ever one of us women lives or would kill for. If your DH is able to bring you to this point ? you need to ride him all the way to the end!!! You want go wrong or be sorry!
First, I suggest you place a couple of thick folded towels on the bed ? under who ever on the bottom when going for this one. It can get wet ? but it is not urine, so don?t worry about the peeing thing. Ok!!!
I?ve had girl friends that would stop short of their Big ?O? because they also thought they?d pee all over DH. I?ve told them ? so what, if you do he?ll enjoy it as much as you did. Some would later try it ? then come back telling me that?s the best intercourse they had ever had with DH. Several said something like ?you were right ? I didn?t pee on him; but, it was quite wet during and afterwards. ?Thanks for giving me the opportunity to experience one of the best orgasms I?ve ever had with him.? Now I know what to look and go for when we have sex!!!?
~~Emily~~
A little something about your postings ? yours in black mine in blue:
I've always been able to achieve clitoral orgasms... That?s great! In fact, I can have one in under 2 minutes. Not many women can say that it?s that fast; but, many do obtain an orgasm via clitoral stimulation.
However, I've never had a vaginal orgasm not many do (I think. If I had one, I would know, right?) Yes you would I bought the Hummingbird vibrator this past weekend and started exploring. Good! The thing is, I have no idea for what kind of feelings I should be watching out for. The same ones you get from DH when he?s fingering or oral. I'm also unsure how long it's supposed to take (if that makes any sense). I?d say about the same as when DH in doing it to you. I was trying for about an hour....aaaaand then the batteries went dead and since the new pack was in the kitchen and I didn't feel like going to get them, I called of the mission. I take it here is when DH took over the process and finished you off. Right!
I'm not sure if this is it, but when I *thought* I was close, it felt like I was gonna pee myself, so I stopped. That?s when you should have defiantly continued to climax. This has also happened during sex previously, but I made my DH stop... Wrong move at this point ? continue on!!!
Not sure if this has anything to do with it, but I'm 26, married for 7 years. No not really but glad you have some time together. We still have sex almost every other day and it's great. Now that?s something ? most stop having that much sex after usually six to eighteen months then it becomes about once a week to once a month or so afterwards. At the 24 to 30 month length in a marriage most couples might have sex once a month. So you consider yourself one of the extremely lucky women. Even if I don't feel like doing it in the first place, I'll do it anyways...because it's like working out. I like the way you put this ? You might not want to do it, but when it's over, you're glad you did. Sounds good to me~
~~Emily~~
I never post here, but felt compelled to.
You were almost there if you felt like you were going to "pee". You may squirt and that is a-ok. I just discovered this myself and it is is INCREDIBLE!!!! Put some towels down and have some fun.
My advice, do some research. Go to some websites and look up "squirting" and you will see just how exciting it can be.
Sex is supposed to be fun and not scary or worrysome.
Good luck and have a great time