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avg age for having bebes

what's the avg age for having babies where you're from?

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  • my hometown: honestly, a lot of girls got pg in high school or right after. most girls who don't get out of town don't go to college or only go for a year at the jr. college and then have babies.  for those of us who got out of that town, we're all still mostly childless.

    in bham: i consider bham to be more 'professional' in that women are college educated, seek out their careers first and then go into mommyhood. honestly, most of the people i work with/know in town start having kids in their 30s. it makes me feel better about waiting later :)

  • Around here in podunk, it seems like all of the pregnant ones are teenagers. 

    In my hometown, I know of 2 or 3 girls that were pregnant during/right out of HS, and I would say maybe 60% of my graduating class had families by mid to late 20's.  Some of my classmates are like me and just starting now.  It's weird to me when I reunite on FB with a HS friend and they have a 19 or 20 yr old kid.

     I wasn't able to take care of myself in my late teens/early 20's, much less a baby. 

     

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    I really, honestly couldn't tell you.  I just have no idea.

    Within my group of friends, though...most of my college friends and a lot of my high school friends were married right out of college (at 21/22).  Most of them started having kids within a couple years.  Of my close group of friends, the oldest child will be 9 this fall.  A lot of my friends are on child #4 or #5 by now.

    Needless to say, that doesn't do much to make me feel better about not having a baby.  Huh?

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  • in guam  - 18ish. almost everyone i work with had a baby at 18 and they're not married to the baby daddy. plus, asians/pacific islanders tend to look really young for their age so my one coworker who is 33 has a 15 year old looks liks she's in her mid to upper 20s - i want to be her. hah. it's cool though because guam is so family oriented so they will have 5 or 6 generations together instead of the "normal" 4 generation pictures i'm used to!
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    Around here, its a mixture of ages young and older.  Although in my group, they had kids in their early 20's, and the others dont have kids yet.
  • I'm not really sure. I would say probably early to mid-twenties. I do have a lot of friends that didn't have kids until their late-20's or early 30's.
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  • Honestly I have no clue. Some of the people I am fb friends with from high school have kids and some dont yet. 
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  • I couldn't tell you but I want to think it's later here. There are a lot of over 35 mom's groups advertised for and my old coworker is 38 and just had her first last year and is expecting her second.  I don't see a lot of teen pregnancies. Some of my acquaintances from hs have kids, but not many and out of our friends, we're the first to be having a kid.
  • I think it is very mixed here also. Sure there are pg girls in the local high schools, there are pg girls at the university, there are pg girls  in their mid-late 20s and there are pg girls in their 30s and 40s. I meet a lot of new moms at a support group at my hospital and we are really all ages.

     I often if myself being one of the youngest moms (at 26) in many groups of moms such in moms group and in Luke's school.

  • i think around here if you dont go to college then more than likely you are pg. We have quite alot of teen pregnancies or early 20's. I know in our certain group of friends we are the ones that have been married the longest and will more than likely be the first to have a baby.
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  • I have no idea what the average age is for my area, but among my friends it's early 30's.
  • I'd imagine there are lots of young, unmarried girls having kids, just because unfortunately that happens everywhere. I'd say for married people or families that are TTC or planning for a family, late 20s - early 30s is probably the norm.
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