August 2006 Weddings
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NER: Bounced check wedding gift. WWYD?
A friend had a check someone gave her for a wedding gift bounce. And she was charged fees for it by her bank. She's wondering how to handle. I said, they know it bounced and are likely embarrassed and there's really nothing she can do but send the thank you note and let it go. But I thought I'd put it out to you ladies in case there were other ideas for how to handle.
Re: NER: Bounced check wedding gift. WWYD?
I don't know if this is correct, but I think this was just asked on P&E the other day, and someone pulled out an E.Post comment that said that (a) don't mention it, but (b) don't send a thank you note until they contact you.
*shrug*
I kinda get the logic there. They obviously know the check bounced, so they're either just going to let it go, or will send you another check. It doesn't make any sense for you to thank them for their kind gift of $XX if you didn't actually get $XX. You could write a note thanking them for coming, but E.Post's response was to just wait until the replacement check arrives to send out one thank you note that basically thanks them for their gift and for coming.
yeah i, too, would write a thank you and let it go. and i'm sure she'll be hearing from her friend soon with an apology and likely a new -- good -- check.
I probably wouldn't do anything, as pp said. I *might* mention it to a family member if they were friends with them, NOT to out them, more just as a heads and maybe get some insight on what their situation is. They might be having other financial issues.