North Dakota Nesties
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

F/U on Sister's Wedding

I decided to quit responding to all texts from my sister until she can be nicer and act like an adult.  Aaron and I went camping this weekend and THANKFULLY I had no cell phone reception.  When we made it back into a service area I had the following text messages waiting for me:

L: Where's my money

L; Bill and I want nothing to do with you anymore

L: Bill said you are the most selfish person he has ever known

I really have no idea what to do anymore.  To top it off Aaron and I were going to be buying life insurance from my sister's FI.  Is it wrong for us to go buy it from someone else at this point?

Re: F/U on Sister's Wedding

  • I think you have the right idea not responding until she can speak to you like an adult.  I think you should definitely go buy insurance from someone else.  I certainly wouldn't wait around until this is resolved. 

  • imageJillybean2880:

    I think you have the right idea not responding until she can speak to you like an adult.  I think you should definitely go buy insurance from someone else.  I certainly wouldn't wait around until this is resolved. 

    This.  I say she can go honk on bobo.  She is so selfish, it isn't like you sat there and thought hmmm how can I get outta going to this wedding.  Some people are just rude.  Sorry you have to deal with her.

    A & T Since 2009 Parents of A born July 2010
  • imageJillybean2880:

    I think you have the right idea not responding until she can speak to you like an adult.  I think you should definitely go buy insurance from someone else.  I certainly wouldn't wait around until this is resolved. 

     

    I agree 100%.  She needs to grow up and you do not owe her anything!!

    New bio with helpful info for DW knotties!
    Ashley & Josh ~ The Reef Resort ~ Grand Cayman~ May 15th 2010
    image
    imageimage
  • imageJillybean2880:

    I think you have the right idea not responding until she can speak to you like an adult.  I think you should definitely go buy insurance from someone else.  I certainly wouldn't wait around until this is resolved. 

    New bio with helpful info for DW knotties!
    Ashley & Josh ~ The Reef Resort ~ Grand Cayman~ May 15th 2010
    image
    imageimage
  • I agree with pp.  If she can't act like an adult I wouldn't talk to her either.  And if her FI wants nothing to do with you guys like she stated then I would not buy life ins from him b/c you will have to speak with him in the future if he is your agent.  GL with the whole situation!
    Visit The Nest!
  • imageCanadianBride84:
    imageJillybean2880:

    I say she can go honk on bobo. 

    LOL!  This exactly!  Until she can hold an adult conversation I wouldn't have anything else to say to her.  As for the insurance, like PP said, I'd definitely take my business else where since he would become your agent and you'll have to deal with him in the future.  Who's to say he won't be acting like a tool again at a later date.

     

    Tracy & John, December 11, 2008 - Melia Caribe Tropical - Punta Cana
  • imageCanadianBride84:
    imageJillybean2880:

    I say she can go honk on bobo. 

    LOL!  This exactly!  Until she can hold an adult conversation I wouldn't have anything else to say to her.  As for the insurance, like PP said, I'd definitely take my business else where since he would become your agent and you'll have to deal with him in the future.  Who's to say he won't be acting like a tool again at a later date.

     

    Tracy & John, December 11, 2008 - Melia Caribe Tropical - Punta Cana
  • This is your sister? He!l to the no!!!

    I'd compile some web links about diva brides with the subject title that she needs to stop acting this way...

    Sorry, but I'd never let an adult boss me around, throw a temper fit on me or otherwise, act like a fool and let them get away with it.

     

  • This is your sister? He!l to the no!!!

    I'd compile some web links about diva brides with the subject title that she needs to stop acting this way...

    Sorry, but I'd never let an adult boss me around, throw a temper fit on me, or otherwise, act like a fool and let them get away with it.

     

  • I am still in awe! 

    Tell her the check is in the mail....she already called you a liar...might as well live up to her expectations!  HA!

    (I think I've got a crick in my neck from shaking my head so much at your sister's asininity!)

  • imagesiba1119:

    To top it off Aaron and I were going to be buying life insurance from my sister's FI.  Is it wrong for us to go buy it from someone else at this point?

    IMO, business & family do not mesh well, AT ALL.  Buy from someone else.

    Also, I do believe that not responding to the immature text messages is the most appropriate thing for you to do.

  • Ugh. I am so sorry.  I agree with everyone - it's best to not talk to her until you can have a rational conversation and it's obvious that's not going to happen right now. 
  • imageCanadianBride84:
    imageJillybean2880:

    I think you have the right idea not responding until she can speak to you like an adult.  I think you should definitely go buy insurance from someone else.  I certainly wouldn't wait around until this is resolved. 

    This.  I say she can go honk on bobo.  She is so selfish, it isn't like you sat there and thought hmmm how can I get outta going to this wedding.  Some people are just rude.  Sorry you have to deal with her.

    This & This!

    ((hugs)) I'm sorry you're dealing with this BS Tracy! 

  • Good for you for not responding to her childish messages.  At this point they're both just trying to get a rise out of you. 

    And like pp said, don't wait around for life insurance until they can be adults if you are seriously on the market for it.  Who knows how long it'll be until they come around. 

    Again I really hope things get resolved and she comes to her senses. 

  • UGH!  so glad you had no service.  i think it is wise to just stop playing her little games. 

    as for buying from FI, hell NO!  i would find someone else.  GL.

    hugs and sorry you are dealing with htis still love!

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Isn't family drama the best?!  Ugh, I'm so sorry you have to deal with this.  I agree with all the girls that not responding to her immature texts was the right thing to do and you should definitely look for someone else to buy your insurance from.  HUGS!
  • Seriously? What is her deal!?!?

    I agree with pps.  Go buy from someone else!

  • imageCanadianBride84:
     I say she can go honk on bobo. 

    LMAO!!

    I agree with all pps and would get insurance through someone else. GL!

    Anniversary
  • Your sister needs a redneck beat down.  Ignore her and hope that she and BIL are happy with each other. 

    As for the insurance, go buy from someone else.  You'll get a better rate any way. 

  • Lisa7Lisa7 member
    Sixth Anniversary
    imagemrybrwn9:

    Your sister needs a redneck beat down.  Ignore her and hope that she and BIL are happy with each other. 

    As for the insurance, go buy from someone else.  You'll get a better rate any way. 

    This exactly! I am so sorry Tracy that you have the deal with that BS

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageLisa7:
    imagemrybrwn9:

    Your sister needs a redneck beat down.  Ignore her and hope that she and BIL are happy with each other. 

    As for the insurance, go buy from someone else.  You'll get a better rate any way. 

    This exactly! I am so sorry Tracy that you have the deal with that BS

    This is what I'm thinking!

    I'm so sorry that they are putting you through all this crap!

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards