BJs

keykey82 · May 2010

Does anyone enjoy giving BJs? If so, why? If not, why not? Also, how often do you perform the act?

onemissa · May 2010

I love giving my husband BJs. I love how he reacts when I do it and not to give too much info, but he smells and tastes really good. When we first got together he got one almost everyday, but now that we've been together for awhile maybe once a week.

captainstarlet · May 2010

I love it too. It's one of my favorite things to do. I love how into it he gets, and I get really turned on by it. I'm sure it helps that going down is one of my strengths, so I feel very confident and sexy doing it.

ashleym909 · May 2010

i enjoy it too. sometimes i hoestly just dont want to doit, i'd rather just have sex. but DH loves when i give him a bj..just the look on his face is awesome lol! he likes to cvm on my face...im not too fond of that, but i let him sometimes, especially if im not wearing any makeup! he gets it a few times a week at least, maybe more.

pastrypuff9000 · May 2010

I enjoy giving BJs.

Maybe 5 times a week.

MrsZemler · May 2010

I really enjoy giving them, DH gets them frequently. I like doing things I'm good at and hey I'm good at giving head.

lesleybrianne · May 2010

I don't particularly like giving head, but he REALLY likes it and it is an easy way for me to please him. Plus it is an ego boost when he tells me how good I am at it. I usually only partake when I am on my period, so maybe 1-3 times per month

davessamantha1991@yahoo.com · May 2010

lesleybrianne:
I don't particularly like giving head, but he REALLY likes it and it is an easy way for me to please him. Plus it is an ego boost when he tells me how good I am at it. I usually only partake when I am on my period, so maybe 1-3 times per month

Same here. I would really like to be more into it b/c he likes it so much. Its not like im not good at it b/c I am I just did it so much for a past bf that now I just cant get into it all that much.

strangebird · May 2010

I actually do really enjoy giving DH blowjobs. I get to be totally in control and it brings him so much pleasure--what's not to love? Plus, he more than reciprocates, so it's a win-win situation.

jonesdouglas · May 2010

I guess I'm the only one to say this...I DONT enjoy giving BJ's and its very rare that I give my DH one. BJ's aren't his absolute fav thing to do in the bedroom, and him going down on me isn't either... so it works for us both.

cherrysweetdeal · May 2010

I don't always like giving BJ's but I do it once in awhile and I've been told they are good. He enjoys them they just aren't my favourite thing I guess.

kort2885 · May 2010

I don't like giving them because I have a horrible gag reflex and it just takes forever. My neck, back, shoulder, etc hurt so bad afterwards. I don't know maybe I'm just not doing it right. I wish I liked doing it because he loves them but it just feels like so much work lol.

cheer1uca · May 2010

I prefer not to give BJ's because I have TMJ issues. It hurts really bad to stay open for awhile. Other than that, DH likes BJs, but is completely ok with a hand job or sex.

soontobeahigh · May 2010

Yes! Fun for everyone! Used to be often, maybe 1x a week or more, now not so much. Still enjoy doing them, it just doesn't always work out.

steph_august · May 2010

I'm not so fond of them, but for me its because my jaw aches and I have a super tiny mouth not only am I without my wisdom teeth, but 4 other permament teeth too since my jaw small, and in my mid 30s I still use the kids flouride trays at the dentist. This just makes it much more difficult. . . .

peppergrass@me.com · May 2010

I love it but I don't do it as much anymore. Normally just when I am on my period as well. I like watching him enjoy it. Plus it turns me on too! : )

lesleybrianne:
I don't particularly like giving head, but he REALLY likes it and it is an easy way for me to please him. Plus it is an ego boost when he tells me how good I am at it. I usually only partake when I am on my period, so maybe 1-3 times per month

TarponMonoxide · May 2010

ashleym909:
i enjoy it too. sometimes i hoestly just dont want to doit, i'd rather just have sex. but DH loves when i give him a bj..just the look on his face is awesome lol! he likes to cvm on my face...im not too fond of that, but i let him sometimes, especially if im not wearing any makeup! he gets it a few times a week at least, maybe more.

So.

I guess it still stands that oral sex, well, just isn't sex, then.

marieconley3 · May 2010

Love it!

Hated it until met hubby, but he taught me how to really enjoy it. Why I like it now? Hmm...he enjoys it, it turns me on, etc.

It's been worked into the routine, so 2x a week.

clubhouse24 · May 2010

kort2885:
I don't like giving them because I have a horrible gag reflex and it just takes forever. My neck, back, shoulder, etc hurt so bad afterwards. I don't know maybe I'm just not doing it right. I wish I liked doing it because he loves them but it just feels like so much work lol.

This. I want to like it but I have no idea how to get over the work it involves. BF asks for them but hes not very vocal about enjoyment which leads me to question whether hes enjoying it or not. Its makes me self concious.

azsheena · June 2010

I like giving them too. I never really did before DH. He really likes them which I think helps! Before I got pregnant, he probably got 3-4 a week (almost every time we had sex as foreplay and sometimes just the BJ). Now my libido is out the window, so probably once a week. I don't really like the taste of his cvm, so I don't finish it very often- maybe a few times a month.

The_Quiet_One · June 2010

I enjoy giving and DH enjoys getting them. I'd say, though, that he probably only gets one a week, but part of that is because we work opposite shifts right now and don't have sex that often period.

BigTrev · June 2010

I wish my wife enjoyed them more...its interesting to read that some of you actually ENJOY giving them. That is an admirable trait!

InkedGaugedMama · June 2010

I used to enjoy giving them. Ever since DH got more comfortable in our relationship, he doesn't get as... prepared for them. He used to make sure he was clean and groomed down there... now... not so much, so I don't like doing it near as much as I used to.

lulabellalula · June 2010

InkedGaugedMama:
I used to enjoy giving them. Ever since DH got more comfortable in our relationship, he doesn't get as... prepared for them. He used to make sure he was clean and groomed down there... now... not so much, so I don't like doing it near as much as I used to.

^ oh no!!! >.< that's horrible! well, if that happened to me, i would tell him, groom it, make it nice if you expect my face to be down in that!! Hey..if he wants it, he should make an effort on his part!! What if YOU stopped grooming and prepping down there? i don't think he would appreciate that!

Roundrockgal79 · June 2010

jonesdouglas:
BJ's aren't his absolute fav thing to do in the bedroom, and him going down on me isn't either... so it works for us both.

Ditto on this for us! Sometimes I'll start with him but usually just a few seconds and then it's on to something else!

mrsbrady801 · June 2010

InkedGaugedMama:
I used to enjoy giving them. Ever since DH got more comfortable in our relationship, he doesn't get as... prepared for them. He used to make sure he was clean and groomed down there... now... not so much, so I don't like doing it near as much as I used to.

i used to like doing them, but my hubby tends to sweat a lot during the day (not to mention my sensitive sense of smell)... and i'm lucky if he's not too tired for sex, yet alone a quick shower beforehand... / i just don't do it anymore unless he's fresh out of the shower.

holly514 · June 2010

kort2885:
I don't like giving them because I have a horrible gag reflex and it just takes forever. My neck, back, shoulder, etc hurt so bad afterwards. I don't know maybe I'm just not doing it right. I wish I liked doing it because he loves them but it just feels like so much work lol.

I feel the same way! He loves them but my body hurts from the position I get in. It totally feels like to much work. So he usually gets it on special occasions lol.

Kristianne48 · June 2010

I used to hate it, but since finding DH, I have come to really enjoy it. He really makes me feel sexy while I'm doing it, it isn't just him laying there while I do all the work. What a difference it makes now!

amberoye · June 2010

I don't enjoy it. DH has a lot of girth so my jaw & neck get sore and it takes forever. .

BigTrev · June 2010

Kristianne48:
I used to hate it, but since finding DH, I have come to really enjoy it. He really makes me feel sexy while I'm doing it, it isn't just him laying there while I do all the work. What a difference it makes now!

What does he do/say to make you feel sexy?

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