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FireChiefsBride · June 2010

Because it's work-related and I know a few people on these boards work over there, I'm DD'ing. Thank you all for your advice. Here's hoping for a positive response!

Chicklit · June 2010

Since you have regrets and miss the friendship, I'd say it's worth making an attempt to contact her. I wish I was strong enough to send an apology to some of the people in my life that deserve it.

flymansWife · June 2010

Chicklit:
Since you have regrets and miss the friendship, I'd say it's worth making an attempt to contact her. I wish I was strong enough to send an apology to some of the people in my life that deserve it.

this.

flymansWife · June 2010

Chicklit:
Since you have regrets and miss the friendship, I'd say it's worth making an attempt to contact her. I wish I was strong enough to send an apology to some of the people in my life that deserve it.

this.

thegastons · June 2010

I would definitely send a message. If you guys were as close as you say, I'm sure she will probably be glad to hear from you. And really, given the situation, I think anyone would have been upset about the position change since you had been working towards it. Good luck!

richardslove · June 2010

I would contact her. Chances are if you were that close and had a lot in common, you probably still do. I bet she's been stalking you on facebook as well and has been too afraid to "friend" you.

TX-Bride · June 2010

I would make an effort.

I did that with an old friend, our situation was very different, I sent her an apology! She was really nice about it, since it was a long time ago, it seemed like a funny story rather than staying bitter about it (for both us!)

MrsJEC · June 2010

Your situation reminds me of a situation I had with a friend (it's a little different, but that's not quite the point). If she sent me a message like you are describing, I would absolutely welcome it. I miss her a great deal, and I would definitely accept her apology and make her a part of my life again. (FWIW--I have tried to reach out to her, but it's really in her court now) I say, send the message. It's not too late to be a part of each others' lives again!

CollieJade · June 2010

Chicklit:
Since you have regrets and miss the friendship, I'd say it's worth making an attempt to contact her. I wish I was strong enough to send an apology to some of the people in my life that deserve it.

This. Interestingly enough, I posted something similar (as far as contacting the old friend goes) on the baby board yesterday. It's hard to make the contact when you know you had a part in why things went sour.

I say give it a try! The worst she can do is ignore you.

gofurr25 · June 2010

I would give it a shot. If nothing else you will know that you tried to reach out to her.

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