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Coworker vent

I have this one coworker who is really moody, and when she's in a good mood she can be funny and good to talk to, but then the other half of the time she gets a bee in her bonnet over something and acts like a raving b!tch.  She's done this for years, and about two months ago started giving me the silent treatment/glaring at me/attitude out of the blue.  I finally called her out on it and went to our manager to say that if she can't clean up her act I'm involving HR, because no one wants to come in to a hostile work environment every day.  Things have been getting a little better lately, we're not exactly friendly, but I haven't been getting the "deep freeze" from her in the last few weeks either.

So this morning she posts something nasty on her FB page, clearly about me, and I don't know why but it is really bothering me.  I am a nice person and I haven't done anything to her, but she has clearly decided to take out whatever bitter festering rage she has and vent it towards me.  I would like nothing better than to not have to deal with her, but that's not an option.  *Sigh* 

Co-irkers... can't live with them, illegal to kill them.

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Re: Coworker vent

  • I'm sorry it stinks to have a crabby co-worker. How about de-friending her on facebook? If you guys aren't friendly there is no reason she needs to see personal things about your life and if she wants to vent and be petty about you on her page, you don't need to know it's going on. Might make that part a bit easier. ?good luck.
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  • I'm sorry!  Moody/toxic coworkers are the worst.  I agree with Sept. about blocking her on FB.  It sounds like she's the one with the problem and I know it easier said than done, but try not to let it get you down.  You can only be so nice to someone who acts this way!
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  • ugh bitchy_coworkers are the worst.  I had one that made my life hell when I first moved to Rochester.  I am sorry :(
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  • Eww. I hate coworker drama. I have a couple like that.. it makes life interesting.. thats for sure.
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  • Have you ever had a one on one talk with her about her attitude towards you?
  • Yeah, I've tried addressing it before and it usually gets a lot worse before it gets better.  She's just a bully, and unless she's charging around being angry at someone she's not happy.  I would LOVE to get a new job and not have to deal with her!
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