My BFF called last night and asked me to go dress shopping so that she could find something to wear when she gets married. This alone made me feel a TON better about the secret wedding. Her mom called me this morning and started asking direct questions that I couldn't help but tell the truth about. Her mom knew that they were planning to do something alone, and thinks it's nice he's invited me and the other friend.
As of now, we aren't going to say anything. If my BFF was planning to get hitched alone, she knew her mom wouldn't be there and that was her predetermined plan (according to her mom).
I'm feeling a lot more at peace about the situation knowing that this wedding isn't really a "surprise wedding" but moreso a wedding planned by her fi that she has no part in decision making.
ps- I'm going to dd the original post just in case she or someone IRL finds me here.
Re: f/u to Sticky Friend Situation