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Sticky Work Situtation

I hate my boss. Like really hate him. He talks down to everyone, hands off all his work, and is just a jerk. Anyhow, last night he stepped over the line in my opinion. He was being a jerk about something and someone called him Hitler. He thought this was really funny and then proceeded to put a piece of black paper over his lip and walk around the office telling people to work harder and to stay late. He thought this was insanely funny.

I must have looked horrified because he came into my office this morning to apologize but I still feel like this really stepped over the line. What would you do in this situation?

Re: Sticky Work Situtation

  • I don't know if I would turn him in yet, but I would start a journal and document every inappropriate action in the work place.  Start with yesterday and write down everything: time, date, incident summary, people who were there.

    If something happens from this or another incident, you would be able to show documentation of every offense.

  • Could you attempt to talk to him?

    Let him know that what he did bothered you, and you find that he was not acting in a professional manner?  Boss or no boss, he's just a human (I'm not sure what his experience level is).

     

    I also like the above post, in regards to keeping a log.

  • I actually already have a log of things because this is not the first time he has offended me. This was just the first time that I think HE realized it was wrong.

    I would talk to him except he is very defensive and hates confrontation. I have tried to talk to him before about things and he yells and walks out of the room.

    And just for a little background, the man is in his 50's, spent most of his life in the army and claims to have been "born to be a manager". Oh yeah, did I mention I work at a college and he is also a sociology instructor?

  • Wow. Can you say awkward!?!? I'm not sure what I would do in that situation, but it can't hurt to keep track of his offenses.
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