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So are you the love-maker or are you a quickster?

Do you perferr to make love, and let it last an hour or more before you O?

Or do you perferr the quickies, you know under 30 minutes where you get in work yourself to O and then get out?

Or do you even O during intercourse ::record screech:::?

 

I'm not so much the type to want to be butt naked and sweaty for hours, I love to just work myself up to the O in quickies.

Re: So are you the love-maker or are you a quickster?

  • It depends on what kind of mood were in. Sometimes I just want to make love and other times we start out that way and end up doing a quickie. But I have never had an O during intercourse. Well at least not from penetration!
  • Definitely some of both!  When it's been a few days, the hour+, when its been like 5 times in a week just a quickie.  Otherwise it is definitely a toss up.
  • I like both but if we "make love" for extended periods I end up Oing multiple times.
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  • I have no desire to have sex for an hour before I have an orgasm. I'll probably be game for drawn out foreplay and multiple orgasms though.
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  • My definition of "quickie" is significantly less than 30 minutes.

     

    Quickies are what you have before you leave for a party.  Or in the laundry room at a party.  Or very very quietly in the bathroom when you are stuck for the holidays at relatives' house.  Hot, furtive intense sex. 

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    My definition of "quickie" is significantly less than 30 minutes.

     

    Quickies are what you have before you leave for a party.  Or in the laundry room at a party.  Or very very quietly in the bathroom when you are stuck for the holidays at relatives' house.  Hot, furtive intense sex. 

    lol. and that's why I said under 30 minutes.  I have the quickies sometimes even under 5 minutes, but there has been times it would last about 20-30 with different positions. 

  • I honestly do not remember the last time I had an orgasm from sex (just penetration).  Ever since I got the birth control implant I have NOT wanted it at all when we have sex, it sucks for me but it seems like NOTHING feels good....I am hoping like hell that this gets better (its been since last October!!!)
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  • It really depends. Sometimes DH and I love to just let ourselves enjoy the experience and have a nice, long session. Other times, we just want to be intimate and get off quick. It also depends on if we're both in the mood, or if one of us is horny and the other is just the pleaser.

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  • Yes.
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  • I'm not a huge fan of making out... never was really.  I do like some longer sessions just not often.  I prefer the under 30 minutes kind of thing considering the last time we were waiting for the water to boil for dinner:P.  I have a giant wall in my head when it comes to the O part of sex, I'd love to but I just can't get past the wall.  I'm trying to work on that though it's a thick wall sadly.
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  • imageLegalBritt:
    Wow, I'm jealous. I'm lucky if I have one orgasm. And I agree with PP....a quicky is like 10 minutes or less and that's what we almost always have. 30 minutes is like unheard of in our sex life.

    Very similar situation. I honestly prefer 15-20 minutes. I dont think DH could last much longer than that :)

  • We do "quickies" more than we "make love".  I almost always O during intercourse.
  • Almost always under 30 minutes, and I always "O' one way or the other!
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