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Gah...vent (TTC related)

I think I mentioned on here a few months ago about our niece born in late January to my BIL and his wife.

Yep, you've guessed...they think she's pregnant AGAIN...they couldn't get into the doctor today b/c they had to put down their kitty (major sad face b/c he was so cute - he hate a bug, and he got really sick, and there was nothing they could do), but she's taken at least 6 hpt's, and all positive. And she's late by a couple weeks (she's uber regular apparently).

Did I mention she has ONE ovary? :-(

Oh well, the niece/nephew will be much loved, and I am happy about it, just really bummed too.

His brother was cute about...they offered to let us adopt this baby. Too sweet, but we declined. I want a baby, but I think the sibling/cousin thing would be kind of odd.

So I'm consoling myself with wine and an at home mani/pedi.

 

Re: Gah...vent (TTC related)

  • Ugh...what a drag!  I'm sorry hun. 

    So forgive me for sounding....snarky I guess....but since you didn't accept their offer are they keeping the baby or are they still putting it up for adoption?  That just sounds way weird. Sorry.

    Wine + pedi sounds nice! Big hugs darlin!

  • Thanks...no, they're keeping it. I think they offered b/c they feel bad/guilty for getting pregnant so quickly and we still haven't. My sister offered the same thing. Sweet offers, but at the same time it's like, I don't want your baby b/c you feel bad for me. Weird.

    Wine makes almost everything better :-) And new nail polish. And a lesson learned to never ever buy cheapie nailpolish...so watery I had to put one like a bagillion coats; thankfully that's on the toes. Have better polish for the fingers.  

  • I've had people start to offer weird things too.  The weirdest was a coworker offering her lady parts cause she "wasnt ever gonna usem." Indifferent

    Uh no thanks. LOL

     Sweet of them to offer though!

    I buy a.von nailpolish.  It's cheap but its still great.

  • Um...eew! People are so weird...and a little gross sometimes!

    I will have to try and see about the nailpolish...I bought one NYC cheapie, and one Sallie.Hansen. NYC = ugh. Thanks for the tip :-) 

  • Sorry to hear that :(. Sort of weird that they just offer up their baby but nice I guess. I am praying so hard for all you girls to get those BFPs like NOW!
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  • I understand  what you feel. Once we started trying I kept hearing that this girl and that girl was pregnant or had a baby. I was happy for them but at some point I wanted to be the one with the good news. Wine, mani/pedi and flowers definitely help. I really hope that you'll get BFP VERY, VERY soon! Hugs to you :) 
  • imageRachel2315:
    Sorry to hear that :(. Sort of weird that they just offer up their baby but nice I guess. I am praying so hard for all you girls to get those BFPs like NOW!

    This!!

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    imageRachel2315:
    Sorry to hear that :(. Sort of weird that they just offer up their baby but nice I guess. I am praying so hard for all you girls to get those BFPs like NOW!

    This!!

    Agreed!

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    imagebreannek.ot:

    imageRachel2315:
    Sorry to hear that :(. Sort of weird that they just offer up their baby but nice I guess. I am praying so hard for all you girls to get those BFPs like NOW!

    This!!

    Agreed!

    and  I third the motion!

  • Ugh. Sorry, sweetie! That was nice in a (very, very twisted way) of them to offer you their baby, but really?! No matter how sad I felt for someone who was struggling with getting pregnant/IF, I would not just say "here, this one is extra, want it?". Weird.
  • imagejweat013:
    Ugh. Sorry, sweetie! That was nice in a (very, very twisted way) of them to offer you their baby, but really?! No matter how sad I felt for someone who was struggling with getting pregnant/IF, I would not just say "here, this one is extra, want it?". Weird.

    I am so glad that you and Karrey said this.  I would rather give up an arm (especially my right one, which today, is being an @sshole, so I slathered it in FlexAll - here's to reaking of grandma for a few hours..). 

    TeamR - I am sending vibes your way that it's your turn, soon. Vibes to all of you TTCers!

  • Geez!  I would be happy but bummed too. . .I guess her one ovary is really a super ovary! 

    Glad you enjoyed your wine and mani/pedi.  Hugs to you.

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  • Ugg, I'm sorry sweetie. I'm with the other girls, that's quite a weird offer. I'm glad your wine and mani/pedi helped do the trick -- I'm with Karrey on the Avon nail polish...love it!

    Lots of vibes to you that your time comes very soon!

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