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I need to Vent ( sorry its so early)
Dh is being such a a$$ I came home yesturday and I found the my dog has thrown up in all different places and Dh blames it on me ugh I didn't give the dogs anything. He goes what did you leave out never mind I'm not going to ask I didn't leave anything out I pick up the freaking house this morning, and then he tells me that he's only going to give me one child b/c he's lonely b/c I sleep all the time ummm I'm sorry I"m tried all the Fing time. I'm sick of this crap me being blamed for every Fing thing. Dh get the stick out of your A$$ and grow up its life you were told my many of our friend that the 3months of Pregnancy your going lonely.
I'm already a nerves reck as it is and he's just making it worst and I have made up my mind that I'm going on Vacation with my parents to get out of the house in 2 weeks. I love Dh with all my heart and I don't need to be stressed out and he's going it. I guess I need to start walking at night I may stay up until 9:00.
Thank you for listen!
Re: I need to Vent ( sorry its so early)
I'm sorry! Hang in there, this is a big change in both of your lives!
I've had problems with my cat puking all over the place; sometimes it just happens regardless of what you do!
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I'm sorry if I came across badly in the first post... I hope your DH starts to understand that you are going through a lot physically and emotionally, and that he really needs to be there for you.
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Has he gone to any appointments with you?
If he hasn't, he should. Here's what you do. Tell the Dr. you are exhausted ALL.THE.TIME. Is there something you should be doing differently? Is everything ok? Dr. will of course tell you it is normal and to be expected. And that the first 3 months are the hardest.
When your DH hears this... hopefully he'll straighten it up. Something about hearing it from someone else rings true to them. I can vouch I know before I even found out I was pregnant I could not keep my eyes open. I would lay on the couch and fall asleep instantly.
If nothing else works tell him to quit being such an a-hole.
I'm sorry that you are having a hard time right now. I know how you feel...I was going to bed at 7:00 every night in the first tri. Just know that there is an end in sight. You will be able to stay up later at some point in the near future.
Maybe you could get DH a book geared towards dad's to be to give him some insight into what your body is going through right now. I read that your body uses more energy laying on the couch for one hour than DH's does in an 1 hour workout.
If that doesn't work, tell him to lay off...you are growing a human being here!
He has gone to my First Appt and he's going to my 2nd appt and just don't get it with Dh. I'm going to try to go walking tonight to see if I can stay up. I'm going ask the doc about it good idea!
NO you didn't come off badly at all! It was a diff a early post for venting!!!
I know when/if I get pregnant, I am going to be an emotional mess so I already feel sorry for my DH.
I hope the vent helped at least!!!! And that he starts to think about you and what you're going through. And it will be so worth it in the end!
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