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The o 0 O!!!!!!!
Despite months of practice and effort I still haven't gotten my big O yet. Last night me and DH were messing around and I got so close with the vibrator. Everything felt so good and I even started clenching muscles but I just couldn't get over the edge. Then I squirmed with want for a good five minutes. I need my release!
So what are some triggers that help you to go? What do you think about? etc..........
PS when I got to the muscle clenching point I was laughing and ready to cry at the same time....... is anybody else like that?
Re: The o 0 O!!!!!!!
Breathe. Do not ever hold your breath. I found that sometimes I hold my breath and it makes it harder to achieve an orgasm.
ETA: I also find that clenching and unclenching my PC muscles helps push me over the edge.
I need pressure in the nether regions. And lot of it. It's why I only hit the big O when I'm on top. I also go really fast when H uses his tongue on my nipples.
Vibrators don't do it for me.
You need to masturbate w/o the aid of a vibrator.
Then show your H what feels good.
Getting your Hs to go down on you would help. I am guessing that oral is not part of your foreplay...and if you think masturbation is a sin and so is oral, forget it. That myth went out with fins on cars.
couldn't agree more.
I am in the same boat I used get the O all the time until I got pregnant!
I just get so sensitive its impossible! Idk what to do I miss it!
Its hard when you have had an O and then you can't
http://dodsonandross.com/blogs/betty-dodson/2010/06/why-women-think-they-cant-orgasm
I thought this was really informative and helpful! An orgasm doesn't always have to be the amazing O... sometimes it's more of a good 0! : )
Wow! That was an awesome article, definitely what I needed. Thanks so much for posting this!
I have recently discovered how great my O's can be with this. To think of what I have been missing the last 10 years I have been having sex, who would have thought!
Are you able to O when you have clitoral stimulation at all? if you have trouble with your hands working for it, have you tried toys? Sometimes I find one of those bullet toys just does it for me (and right now my issue is sometimes everything is so swollen that it just doesnt feel the same).
That is totally me. For weeks I couldn?t I had to remind myself that if I did I did and if not then I wouldn?t my hubby was VERY sweet and let a whole night be about me and getting me there. Sometimes if you take the effort to do TONS of foreplay it could be a lot easier to come. Although mostly it?s a mind thing when you can?t get all the way there. Try not to think about acutally coming, just what is happening and how its feels.