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Vibes for my sister

Her boyfriend broke up with her last night. He's being a stupid tool. He feels like his life is stressful and out of control due to his job so he's decided to stamp out anything good has left. She's distraught. I like him in theory but he's been such a selfish, immature moron lately that I'd like her to kick him to the curb for good.

I'm mostly annoyed because he's behaving like a child and won't talk to her. I don't care if you're married or not - you're not with someone for over 3 years and then end it with a 5 minute conversation (unless there are extenuating circumstances, like abuse). 

Freaking20somethingboys. 

Re: Vibes for my sister

  • Ugh!  I'm so sorry about this and feel bad for your sister!  Maybe this will be a good wake up call for her and she'll move on.  That's like texting a goodbye.  Sucksville...

    Novembie vibes that she can either move on or he grows up!

  • Oh no, that sucks.  I hope they either work it out or she realizes he's an idiot and gets over him.
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  • Poor girl. Break-ups are always hard and it seems the more of a tool he is, the harder it is. Lots of thoughts to her and she can make some sense of this.
  • Men, ahem, boys have no idea how to end things, so it always ends up being something truly odd and wrong.

    I'm sorry that she had to deal with such immature BS.  It's so easy to blame others when you don't have your own shiz under control.  She's better off, although it sucks for now.

    This will be better than vibes: DrinksDrinksDrinksDrinks

  • Thats so sad!  I don't understand why boys are so stupid . . . . 

    On a side note, you just made me think about how awesome my little brother is . . . he would never treat a woman like this! 

  • imagehudysgirl:
    Poor girl. Break-ups are always hard and it seems the more of a tool he is, the harder it is. Lots of thoughts to her and she can make some sense of this.

    I'm going to second this.  Unfortunately the first thing I thought of when you said he wouldn't talk to her is that there is someone else. I hope that's not the case and I hope she moves past this and mends her broken heart soon.

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    imagehudysgirl:
    Poor girl. Break-ups are always hard and it seems the more of a tool he is, the harder it is. Lots of thoughts to her and she can make some sense of this.

    I'm going to second this.  Unfortunately the first thing I thought of when you said he wouldn't talk to her is that there is someone else. I hope that's not the case and I hope she moves past this and mends her broken heart soon.

    I really doubt there is. I think he's feeling all, "Why me?" and having a bit of a quarter life crisis right now. I think he's being selfish so he thinks he gets to call all the shots.

    And I'd have a hard time picturing anyone who's want to be around him. His parents even admitted they're having a hard time liking him right now.

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    Ugh!  I'm so sorry about this and feel bad for your sister!  Maybe this will be a good wake up call for her and she'll move on.  That's like texting a goodbye.  Sucksville...

    Novembie vibes that she can either move on or he grows up!

    This!

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  • Aww...breakups are really hard.  I hope your sister is able to get though it and come out a better person.  I like Aria's idea of drinks (stupid mac wont let me put up the drink) and I am sending some getting over a broken heart vibes.
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  • That stinks :(. 3+ years definitely deserves more than an "I'm done". Boo on boys! I swear, most men don't start acting like men until their 30s. And some don't ever start acting like men...
  • What a d-bag! Lots and lots of vibes for her to mend her heart and get over him, or for him to pull his head out of his ass.
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